I would call it stuffing if we stuffed it in anything, but I have never actually eaten a turkey or anything w/stuffing!
We only do dressing. The question here is, do you want your dressing soupy/moist... or do you want it dry, almost like cornbread. DH & I vote for dry. DS likes it moist, and unfortunately for dh & me, so does most of my side of the family.
DH's mother makes very good dressing though. My mom makes very good dressing, but for some reason, my aunts always make it for my side of the family.