What a day.
Moving day for dd. I arrived at 7:00 and got a plum parking space at her dorm's rear door, which I was able to keep for 3 loads brought down, until I was bumped on behalf of the cable guy who literally had an appt with the building. Next parking space was not really one, and also not as convenient, but allowed by maintenance. Even if parking wasn't all perfect, my early arrival had given us quite a break. Because she had prepared pretty well, we had the key turned in and were driving home by 9:30. This included the complete break down of the fish tank. We picked up BoJ on the way home - sigh. I had an egg biscuit.
Exiting the univ was a puzzle, since every delivery truck, construction truck, garbage truck, etc., had drivers with absolutely no idea it was moving day, determined to make their usual rounds on little driveways that were turned into parking lots!
Back home I prepared for my errands, which just couldn't wait. Off I went to the PO that is just outside the county line so dfirstmil could have her card on time, rather than waiting the extra night in main PO here. Then to bank to deposit for church and then to pharmacy 2, which closes for the weekend, making it with less than an hour to spare.
But, back home again to hear from dd that her Dad was visiting at closest hospital because his dcousin J had been taken there. He has not been able to eat in 4 days because of the throat.
Phone calls to learn about death of a "little boy" (now 30) whom I taught in SS. Called dd37 and ds to let them know. Fielded calls between dsecondmil and ds, neither of whom could manage meeting this evening to have the tractor taken back here. That will happen later. Learned dsecondmil has taken a fall and not told HRH about it. Sigh. Sigh. Sigh. Was not to tell dsecondmil dcousin J was in hospital because his family didn't want her upset until tomorrow when they believe the news will be better and she could actually drive in daylight if she wanted to see him. Shhh. Shhh. Shhh.
Then call from HRH asking me to look up info about just something to drink when radiation had hurt the throat so much. (Dcousin getting IV but still in discomfort even to clear his throat) Ultimately, I was out the door again and surprised him at the local healthy food store, where he'd told me he was going. We shopped with his dcousin's son36 and found a few things. All 3 of us visited in hospital room, then. Difficult. I asked the questions ddil had told me would be wise. Wrote down the answers to tell her later.
I am tired. Most things in from the car, but there is still so much to do to really have dd home. Of course, the fish tank had to be priority to avoid stressing fish - she got all that done while I was on errands. It will still take so much work to get settled back.