I'm in between reunions... judging from my appearance at dh's, I should probably just stay home tonight. sigh. I was just fine... Just Fine... until I went in and started talking to people, and then I had a hard time keeping from crying. I only stayed a few minutes, actually, talked to a couple men and maybe a half dozen women... introduced myself to his first "date" -- LOL! They were FIVE YEARS OLD. Dh's mom told him he could invite someone to go to a Walt Disney movie with him, yes, anyone he wanted to ask, and he wanted to ask this little girl in his class. She remembered it well, although neither of us could remember what the movie was. It may not have been Walt Disney; I'm thinking it was the Wizard of Oz. Anyway. I took the thank you note, and they put it on their sign in table. They also had little candles for each member of their class who has passed away. 25 of them. Wait -- I bet it's 25 total for three classes! They ended up inviting the classes above and below them, so there are three classes together today. I know a lot of these people, on my own, not just as dh's wife, but I just didn't want to stay and cry all afternoon.
Since I was already on something of a crying jag, I rode out to the cemetery and measured dh's parents' stone. They are right next to him, and I'm thinking I want to get the same size as theirs. It's probably just a standard size. Five foot stone on a seven foot base. I think I want vases on each side, and other than that, I don't know. DS would like something a little more "old fashioned" I think, but I know variations from the basic traditional stone will run into variations on the money, too.
I hope I can be better company at my own reunion tonight...
and I hope I get to see the Northern Lights later.