I got back from dmom's about an hour ago and just can't get moving again. I am freezing to death with the a/c on for ds too.
I did not do a good job of being organized and having stuff ready but it all turned out good. After dcousin said in an email last night they might stay until 3 or 4 p.m., I suggested that they go to dmom's first and then come to my house if they still had time and wanted to. I also suggested that if they were arriving around noon or so, this was a long visit for dmom and she would be worn out quickly. This dcousin wanted me to help him set up his genealogy database and that was the main reason he wanted to come here. I was wavering over whether to bake the lasagne here or take it there, so ended up leaving here early, stopping at grocery for bread and some cookies for dessert, and getting the lasagne in the oven a dmom's house. We visited for awhile, then the lasagne came out of the oven and I got the salad together and laid stuff out...we all crowded around the table and ate - Mom, three of my first cousins, dbro and me, and two adult children of first cousins. One of the adult children is the son of a deceased first cousin. Lots of laughs and I think everyone enjoyed it. Dcousin felt mother wasn't as bad as they had feared, based on my reports, so that is good.
I am just worn out tho, and tomorrow need to regroup and leave very very early on Friday a.m. for an out of town wedding with d girl cousin.