Posting without even cuop at all -- just wanted y'all to see what I meant when I said each day is a new adventure!
THIS was the plan Sunday night...
THIS is what has happened and is to happen from here on...
MONDAY, dmom & I are meet w/dbil, keep the dgrands while ds & ddil go out to eat Cancelled dbil appt... but we did keep the dgrands... plus misc errands re: dmomTuesday, I will likely have to take dgs to school -- but then should have most of the day free. Possibly. Could be that I have to pick him up, or I might end up going to nursing home singing w/ds & dh.DID NOT have to take dgs to school, but did go to nursing homeWednesday, keep dgd during lunch hour, and then church Wed. night...Kept dgd, but church has been on/off all afternoon -- first ddil wanted me to keep dgd who still has upset stomach, and let ddil go to church... then ddil called to say none of them were going to church, but if I wanted to go and take dgs, that would be fine... then said dgs doesn't want to go either, but they will call me if he changes his mind. At this point, I don't really want to go either -- but will, if he decides he does want to go... Thursday, dh has a haircut at 1:30... Dcousin's funeral @ 3:00, visitation at 2:00...
dmom has called to say she still doesn't feel well but IS going to take herself to doctor in Next Town @ 10:30 and then will be able to make it to the funeral...
and Friday, looks like ds is going to be home and perhaps we will have that day free!
ironing... schedule my own wellness check-up & mammogram... vacuum ... Nah... those things haven't been touched yet...
However -- today -- in spite of last minute reminder that dgd was coming (ds/ddil did not mention it yesterday) --
I have
* s2s, (including washed hair, but it is still in a towel on top of my head)...done Bible reading & breakfast
*washed 4 loads of clothes
* stripped bed & washed sheets (but sheets are not back on the bed yet)
* called bank to confirm deposit
* called dmom to confirm funeral time
* talked to ds, ddil, multiple times
* kept dgd for an hour or so
* s/s 3 toilets
* ordered bday gift for dgs and wedding gift for dcousin
* taken 3 houseplants out to front porch in hopes that fresh air and natural light will refresh them a bit, without scorching them too much! (They will never get direct sunlight but it IS pretty hot out there already! 90 degrees predicted by the weekend. I also plan to spray them with Sevin Dust (sp?) and maybe give them some plant food.
Now time to hang up 3rd load of laundry and start supper