Shoot, just lost a long post...
(((Harriet))) I'm sorry you had such a frustrating day. ((Hugs)) for your dd's disappointment, too. Sending you some cyber chicken soup in the hope that it will keep you from getting sick. You have been under a lot of stress & pulled in so many directions for a long time. Dr Dove's prescription for you is some uninterupted sewing time with soothing music playing, on a regular basis. Oh, and chocolate .
(((OKay))), yikes about being served. But if it should have already happened, maybe it won't happen at all! Sending you calm vibes as you wait. (And you are neither whiny nor tiring . No one else here is either )
Sweet dreams, everyone.