Postby Kathryn-in-Canada » Mon Dec 12, 2011 9:00 am
Magic wand - that's easy - make the travel arrangements I need to make.
In real life, trying to co-ordinate is hard. We are going to Vegas with two others, one of whom has moved from our community so I can't just have her over for tea and order everything. So that involves phone calls (not my strong suit!) At least I've finally found the direct flight from here but it is a charter so we have to go for a full week, not just 5 days which means we'll miss an additional church service (we'll miss 5 in Feb/March.) The second arrangements are in Capetown so I'm dealing with the time difference (and my natural laziness.) Need a hotel for there for 2 nights and have found a couple of places that look good but need to call to confirm before booking (they are smaller places so I can't book online securely.)
I've created a December Brain Dump notebook and those are in there. Along with other phone calls.
My jaw goes back and forth from being good to bad and back again. It is absolutely fine now, incredibly sore on Saturday (took pain killers all day) so I'm thinking stress has something to do with it. My music friend (who is awaiting total jaw replacement) finally clued in that my jaw was sore. I commented that I was surprised she could eat a bagel since I can't and she asked why. I pointed out that it has been out for about 7 weeks and I've told her over and over and asked her about doctors, etc. She told me one of the two I mentioned was awful because he charged too much (she stopped going to him - hmmmm, I see what going budget got her) and she hadn't heard of the other but thought I should go to hers. No way, I don't think she has the best doctors and I'll stick with my dentist's recommendations.
She was so negative last night it drove me nuts. I finally had to cut the conversation off since mine isn't the same as hers and my treatment will be different (i.e. for starters I can open my mouth more than an inch, secondly, I'll do physiotherapy if that's what is prescribed - if she can't take a pill for what ever ails her, she won't bother doing what the doctor says.)
She had also never heard of changing one's diet to reduce arthritis attacks (she just takes pills.) She refuses to change her diet to stop kidney stone formation as well. It is funny, she doesn't have advil or tylenol at home because if it doesn't come from a doctor, it can't be all that good, so when she had a fever last week, she had to go get tylenol to treat it. Me, I'll do anything to stay off prescription drugs and avoid surgery (months of physio for my back got me walking without a cane without surgery despite the recommendation from my doctor and physiotherapist that I be referred to a surgeon.) She decided that since I was interested in changing my diet I should go to a chiropractor too because they do that sort of 'holistic, non medical stuff.' She is the pharmaceutical industry's dream patient. She only sees the options as pills or far-out treatments by fringe practitioners. Healthy lifestyle is incomprehensible to her.
I'm on the treadmill now feeling surprising strong (it has been a very physical 4 days.) I'm not doing the sprint parts of my workout but happily motoring along at my regular speed and feeling good. No limping this morning at all. Good attitude as well. Wonder how long I'll be able to keep this up.