Hello, ladies!
I hope it is a simple Sunday around here.
I made it to church, in spite of the fact that I drove over halfway home and we got in around 2:30 a.m.!
I was so glad I did bc ddil came and I think it's the first time ever that she has gotten herself and both grands to church on her own! Ds is out of town this weekend.
DH did not go -- he was sick at his stomach all night Friday and after eating tailgate sandwich, he felt worse! He ate roast beef; I had turkey. He actually threw up at halftime --TMI, but that's how bad he felt. He was scared to eat or drink anything else afterwards, but I got him to drink some Gatorade and eat some pretzels on the way home and when I got home from church, he said he felt better.
I am feeling VERY virtuous.
I have
* s/s bathrooms
* emptied/aired out humidifier
* watered plants
* taken allergy shots
* wrote check for paper man
* wiped out refrigerator
* double-checked grocery list & coupons
* cleaned up lunch dishes (w/dh's help)
* refilled all my meds & dmom's meds for the week
* read the paper
NOW -- nap time. Should I call dmom beforehand -- b/c I really don't want to talk to her.
Her team won a VERY exciting nailbiter of a game; ours lost horribly, disappointingly, embarrassingly. She will try to be nice & sympathetic, but she will want me to listen to her talk about how nerve-wracking "her" game was and she cannot understand that no, it is not "all good" as long as one of our state teams is having a good year...
* sheesh *
ALSO... talking to her is still so depressing to me b/c she has sooo many multiple health issues and it just overwhelms me.
And it is depressing to me b/c --
-- the reason I said I will be just like her if I am ever in her situation as a widow, is b/c I already have such a dependent relationship on dh... can't travel without him, can't travel WITH him w/dmom, can't travel with dmom or anyone else... don't even like to go shopping with others... no real "hobbies" except reading... Yeah, I can see me just curling up on the couch and reading/napping/watching tv the rest of my life, too.
Anyway. I will call her and if * WONDER OF WONDERS * she HAPPENS not to be home I will leave a message that I am (1) napping after arriving home at 2:30 am and awaking at 7:30 am for church AND (2) I do not wish to discuss football, congratulations to you & yours and God bless you.