The situation with NF11 is complicated by the fact that she was so young when the bombs started falling. For over half her life, her life has been in turmoil. She doesn't have the base of security that her parents and older sister have; a strong memory of 'life before'. Unsettledness is all she has ever known.
So we have to build security for her. Not rebuild it, but build it for the first time. SHEs like LadyM understand the challenge that will be. Especially difficult for me because I'm only an 'aunt', I'm not there all the time, nor can I communicate well with her. But I feel she's been 'given' to me by God so I'll muddle through with her family, the committee and the support services through the school and refugee support agencies.
She has only been here for 15.5 weeks. We have to remember that as well.
I don't think I've done anything since my last post. At the very least, the clothes need to go from the washer to the dryer.