Postby Harmony » Tue Mar 28, 2017 1:49 pm
LadyM, the lawnmower work is great life experience education for DS8. Some kids never get that.
DSiL took oldest DGS to a program at some county office where they taught changing oil, tires, stuff like that. He asked his friends (boys) what they know and they all told him nothing, we take our cars to places that do that. I'd say his friends all come from higher than average income families, but I feel for them if they don't end up the same.
Of course here I'm used to fixing every. little. thing. It gets tiring. Presently DH took apart my water pik and ordered a new tube/handle part to tape up to the old which got brittle and broke off. My check engine is once again on in the SUV, our fix-and-repair vehicle, and we had a whole lot of fixing, rigging, the little water tank DH hooks up to the compressor and uses a pressure washing wand to get the solution up to the roof to clean shingles. I have a whole bag of parts with receipts ready to take back from just that alone...
I was at HD earlier to pick up of all things concrete blocks, the 8x8x16 heavy ones; he came up 16 short on his project and I was only able to get 12 and waited a long while for them to bring others in from their corral...which never happened.... so I may have to go out. And there was noone out in the loading zone to load but an older man came over and helped me (I felt really bad because he wasn't young and muscular)..
And I've been at my desk for a long while, and knee deep in that. But I slept an extra 1 1/2 hours soundly, never waking up and my goodness I feel so much better today.
My go-to is just to concentrate on getting my daily routines done, the morning and evening one the most important to keeping things running around here. When I don't do those, it gets really bad. Morning: get the kitchen tidied up, coffee & vitamins/meds, dress, bed, start laundry, start paperwork, what's for dinner. Evening, kitchen chores again (very important) recharge coffeepot, put out paperwork and checks and clipboards with permit stuff for DH's early morning start; S2S if I haven't done it earlier, finish whatever laundry is still in the machines; clear out family room of footprints, make sure all phones back on their chargers.
Middle of the day is when I fail. That's zone work, errands, pupa, all the dpcs and stuff I procrastinate on.
We had another bonfire last night, got rid of stuff DH dragged in yesterday. We had conversation about his retirement again. He agrees it is getting harder all the time to work. He has particularly hard job right now going, I think it is necessary that he struggle a bit before he agrees 100% on stopping; though he did say he thinks we'll need every cent this last 15 months of work will provide. He did ask how many months to go..so I know he's thinking; and he is right, but it is all just hard.