I like that title d lady! dd younger and I have been talking about the same thing (lol not the word - but stretching who one is) yesterday. I like tensile (never heard that before) instead of being plastic.
Dd younger is trying to help my d mom stretch her brain and abilities. She is extremely fit but has lost the much of her ability to stretch herself to meet people. She gets so comfortable that she then becomes uncomfortable even a little out of her comfort zone - so funny considering she has traveled the world. She also expects my d brother to do everything that she can easily do. So dd is having her make a list of the things my mom wants my brother to do to see what dd/dmom can do together - eliminating some of my brothers burden. D mom is not necessarily a willing student regarding doing easy things and not just making my brother do it. Dd is hopeful
She said she noticed that d mom becomes less forgetful or stubborn if she stretches herself.
I am working with dh (dd younger and I are working on him as well) as he has limited his life tremendously. Recently I have seen him have a learning sparkle in his eye - it thrills me that he is trying new things as I was getting worried at his limited world. I love seeing people stretching themselves - I think that's why I love meeting young people and I love children for the same reason. I am trying to have dh see life as an adventure not just a routine.
Darn: the bell is going off and it is already 8 am. Dog gone clock. I woke at 6:20 later than usual... it's a rainy day here.
I wish you a wonderful day!!!