Postby Elizabeth » Mon Jul 31, 2017 12:28 pm
Good morning everyone! I have 17 more days until I leave for Hawaii! It was a busy chaotic weekend. I started it with dinner with 9 friends from church Friday. Saturday was the usual cat clinic, which I left early so I could get to a serger lesson. The teacher was able to diagnose my biggest issue in < 1 minute. My model of serger does not do a cover stitch, therefore all my attempts to do one were doomed to failure! I expected that to take half the lesson, so was not as prepared with the questions I needed. Didn't matter, I found them as we went along and got much useful in the way of tricks and tips. Her method of changing thread alone will save me about 30 minutes of time and aggravation. She also told me how to fake a cover stitch with the equipment I had on hand. She suggested I would really enjoy the latest and greatest machine. At $5000, it is more than my entire Hawaii vacation, including cruise, hotel in Honolulu, shore excursions, and flight! I told her (truthfully) if I buy a new machine, I want an embroidery machine. Hard to justify when I don't do a lot of embroidery and am very skilled at hand embroidery. Got home to find out that the x had cancelled DD15's guitar lesson AGAIN, so he dropped her off. We did some sewing with Hogan after dinner and (cue Hallelujah Chorus), I finished traveling companion's sweater!
Sunday started with church. Then home for lunch. DD decided to skip local amusement park in favor of guitar practice. Her version of Dust in the Wind was recognizable without hints. Come Sail Away is coming along nicely. Some song I didn't recognize was very bouncy and fun-sounding and as near as I could tell without knowing the song, well-played. Her instructor, who is also the church music director, wants her to join the praise band. She likes the idea. I'm sure that just thrills her atheist stepmother and her father who has not darkened a church door since the divorce. (Didn't like the prohibition on adultery I imagine). The church van has gone to Heaven, so we picked up some kids for the All-Faiths Night baseball game. Excellent, because DD made two new friends.
On dropping off DD, I once again found the x to be a complete jerk. There was a scheduling snafu because he assumed (like he did when we were married) that I have psychic abilities regarding his schedule and that mine can be completely and arbitrarily shifted about for his convenience. Didn't work when we were married, why would it work now? He said regarding DD, "She is as stubborn as you are". To which I replied, "Don't be insulting. I don't insult you." He did not apologize (no surprise, he thinks such comments are "helpful information and feedback"). But he did look rather shocked. I don't bother to defend myself against his outrageous comments anymore, I just point out his rudeness. It has actually been a few years since he tried the "she's just like you" insult (badly) disguised as information. He stopped after I called him on it before. He is so middle school. I am trying to train myself that, instead of getting angry, I should immediately and constantly thank God that I am free. I am not only grateful to be rid of him, I am grateful to live alone and have no one pestering me. Sometimes I think the other woman deserves better, but that's not my problem. I truly enjoyed going to my bed gloriously and spectacularly alone. Well, sort of, there were four out of the five cats.