Postby LadyMaverick » Fri Sep 22, 2017 11:03 am
Good Morning!
I have been up for hours but purposely have not been productive. I feel the need for a change of pace. It's not that I'm not doing anything, just nothing that is planned. The calendar for today is almost empty (just FNG at 7pm).
I prepared my morning smoothie and DKids breakfast (pancakes & sausage).
I put away all the clean clothes. DH and I keep up with putting our clean clothes away daily but sometimes DS9 and DGD6
clean clothes don't get put away and will pile up on top of the dryer for several days. Teaching them to put their clean clothes up daily is an ongoing process. I wimped out this morning and just put their clean clothes away for them. It is quicker and easier just to do it myself. Today I wanted quick/easy more than a teachable moment.
DGS21 has lied to everyone except me about his activity this weekend. It bugs me greatly. His lie has become quite elaborate. He has lied to his workplace, friends, his Mom (DD), his dad and Great Grandmother (DMom) about what he is doing this weekend. I am upset with him that he is telling these lies. Especially for no reason. I suppose telling a lie for a good reason is still wrong, but at least it would make some type of sense. The lie about his activity this weekend is totally not necessary. He is an adult. He doesn't need to make up lies about his activity. He isn't doing anything illegal. I am not comforted by him being truthful with only me. He has put me into a position of being an accomplice to his lie. I don't want him to feel like he has to lie to me too, but I don't want to have knowledge that he is lying to others. I hate lying.
1. Know what you want.
2. Go after it relentlessly.