Postby blessedw2 » Thu Mar 01, 2018 2:48 pm
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How do you keep your own energy up when others don't have goals - dh especially. How do you keep up your momentum. he is on the computer checking out cars, now fb (I signed him up), reads the news online, He is a lovely man without goals or hobbies.
I can exactly tell what his day is each day. same thing each day: up breakfast, sits all morning, goes to computer and reads and sees car videos, b&n daily - lunch. grocery store for one or two things, takes out the recycling daily, garbage bag, 4 pm sits until bedtime reading or sitting. Looking at cars.
He is a lovely man so I wouldn't complain but I let his low energy affect me.. how do you ignore it and keep focused. I always feel I should be sitting and chatting with him.
it is always a joy to be here with you!