"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." There's a Biblical phrase for you.
Just in case you aren't Christian, here's what other people of faith hold as a basic tenet
"Ever mind the rule of three, what goes out comes back to thee."
"None of you [truly] believes until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself."
"A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated."
"What is hateful to you, do not to your fellow man. This is the law: all the rest is commentary."
"All things are our relatives; what we do to everything, we do to ourselves. All is really One."
"Do not wrong or hate your neighbor. For it is not he who you wrong, but yourself."
"Do not to another what you would not yourself experience."
"Do for one who may do for you, that you may cause him thus to do."
"Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful."
"For we must consider that we shall be as a city upon a hill, the eyes of all people are upon us; so that if we shall deal falsely with our God in this work we have undertaken, and so cause Him to withdraw His present help from us, we shall shame the faces of many of God's worthy servants, and cause their prayers to be turned into curses . . ."—John Winthrop, aboard the Arbella, 1630.[3]
"The idea behind the phrase - of America as a special nation blessed by God - has burrowed so deeply into the American consciousness that some prominent religion scholars and pol-watchers say it is nearly obligatory during Presidential races."
"Since then, each American president has had his own city on the hill moment. For George Herbert Walker Bush, it was on the campaign trail when the city on the hill shined so bright it became 'a thousand points of light.' And Bill Clinton's nod to Winthrop was to adopt the Puritan's idea of 'covenant,' the notion that America has a special role in the eyes of God.
"Many scholars think George W. Bush had his city on a hill moment after September 11, 2001 when he framed the war against terror as a moral response, a mission blessed by God that the rest of the world would join in. 'America was targeted for attack because we're the brightest beacon for freedom and opportunity in the world,' the president said in an address to the nation on Sept. 11, 2001. 'And no one will keep that light from shining.'
Your beacon has gone out extinguished not by outsiders but from within.
Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.
Despise others as you would have others despise you.
I will not stand in the shadow of the darkness; it is tearing me apart. Harriet's church home has now marginalized her and all women. My country. along with other countries who used to stand with the United States, has been marginalized. My prime minister told he'll occupy a special place in hell. Despots have been celebrated. It is not one person; it is deep darkness that has overcome the United States.
For now, I'm fleeing it for one minute for each child torn. No Facebook, other US based social media or regular media or podcasts. And no SHE village for me.