Good day to all of you!!!
d twins.. neuralgia stinks!!! That is actually what dd youngers body is like. Also a nerve issue. I am so sorry you are being hit with pain! Hope you feel better fast! I hope your flare up calms down.. I am so sorry you are in pain.
Yesterday ended up being an all day errand run(day 2
) for d mom and myself. No housework. But my stress level went down bc I got these things done.
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okay - look away!!!! this is just me putting my stress on paper...
trying to figure out my stress. It is really affecting me physically. I have a dr. appointment for a physical - wondering if it physical more then mental.
I did get sick after d mom called - she was wanting to know what time I was getting her even though I wanted to finish my routines - not meanly, also about her health. I did see d mom calls a lot - depending if I am with her or not.
most days with her are 4 - 5 phone calls in the morning, one at night. - most days it is 8 times a day and wednesday it was 11. knowing that helps me see to expect it and hopefully not stress out about it. And know her phone calls about her health - body - (super healthy individual but constantly worries about her body and needs to tell someone).
Taking a few things into my hands now re: her drs. Also I might start typing a weekly or monthly list of her appointments, and what we are doing on those appointments, so she can make sure it is on her calendar.
I have to see how to help dd younger keep moving forward without her getting discouraged. She did get a feature of her picture on a colorado instagram.
her adhd and the brain injury messes with her ability to create a productive day. no balance to help her get things done. then she gets frustrated.
make sure I take time for dh
Accept that not everyone sees the house the way I do. my dh is dirty (not sloppy - it's more the all cleaned up with a dirty neck) (not about his appearance, but does not grasp that having things put away (keeping a lot) is not the same as cleaning- his areas are dirty underneath (always); but I don't know how to explain it but he dirty. a wonderful man though! it's really awful - where he touches is always dirty - walls, tables, his bathroom sink (every day), no cleaning. He uses the anti bacteria stuff all day on his hands and I wonder that if he would wash his hands instead that it would stay cleaner. His sweet mom was like this too. it looked straightened always but it was dirty.
dd younger is still leaving things out at night when she comes home.
I am still trying to de clutter so I don't keep making hot spots. I think that will help everyone.
lol I don't want to keep feeling like we are moving.. constantly it the midst of moving things in the house and moving things out.
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my morning therapy is over
told d mom I was staying home today to work. I haven't been home in 2 days.
wishing you all a brilliant fall or spring day!