spoke to dd younger... she is happy there. We have worked out how to communicate and what is needed from dh and I. Our goal is to make this a safe transition. We are emailing each other - I have my thoughts and then she has hers but we are communicating re: this via email. we have agreed to just enjoy each other on the phone for now and she can still tell me her news and what is going on while she is working out how to move forward. Her rash is gone now that my mom put away the nuts she again brought out. the oils on her hands, I think, were the culprit. It wily l be a learning time for both of us but mostly dd. The world isn't easy and it is better to learn how to work with the world. It is scary for dh and I but we did let dd older go to paris to be an intern and I was terrified. I don't like it one bit but I have to find a way to let her go to find her place in the world and still feel she has people who love her unconditionally. who said parenting was easy or doesn't age you lol.
I am so tired but I will continue on.
Next put the basket I have down in the basement for put away.
I took ty lon el and I am hoping it kicks in soon.
ta ta for now. much love to all of you. Keeping the faith!