Elizabeth wrote:Y'all are making me glad that I will never again have to work what I want around a man. I suggest Kathryn check out meetup.com to find other hikers. I know it sounds like a singles site, but it is not. In my area there are hiking groups, in addition to my knit and crochet groups.
First, I understand your feelings on this. Several of the older women in this complex have said the same thing - they love living life the way they want to and while they like the company of men, they like it in small doses, an evening here or there, no more!
One of the reasons I support dh on this latest volunteer job and with going to Africa each year is that I like have blocks of time where I don't have to work around dh's time or meal tastes.
Second, you are forgetting my often debilitating shyness when you suggest something like meetup.com but I might be able to find someone here in the complex who would like to go. The issue then is I'm balancing their schedule with my schedule (and energy level) and dh's schedule.
But, I still would like to figure out how doing things with dh could be a regular part of our lives. I don't like that we are living increasingly separate lives.
The candles are finished. I have to rush to get into bed by 10 (still have to wash up dishes and do nighttime tidying) but the candles and holders are finished. I got rid of precious little. I love everything I have (and have done two previous culls.) This time I did manage to let go of candles that were 40% burned. And I didn't even put them up on the BuyNothing group in case someone had a craft to do with them. They are organic, they will eventually compost in landfill.