You all are really wonderful!
I am sure that having everyone home and around and wanting a summer for themselves (my guilt and not their view) has probably added to the mix. Also going crazy b 4 blood test with food (I always do - I have to learn from that- I gained 10 pds. - now the test is over I am going back to better eating) added to my body stress.
My BWP is non existent and I have to go back to it. I told my d mom and she agrees that it is better for me even though I feel horrible guilt by not entertaining her, dh etc.
I am surrounded by extremely born organized people - even my d aunt who can barely walk has a spotless house.
My d mom means well but says she wishes she could give me her will power (my d mom eats alllll the time and never gains weight - she doesn't realize it-even my brother said he is shocked on how much her little body can eat - she also had not exercised for 2 years and her dr. told her to walk and now she walked once and is saying that she has will power in that - enthusiast but not mean - trying to be helpful). what did pam and peggy used to say about their d mom : She was born with a to do list on her.
I changed up my routine this morning - I didn't call mom first thing - I went outside and worked before the heat of the day came in. I cleaned the filter, I fixed a couple things - I think there is something wrong with how I put it together again. I am not sure.
I filled the pool more - added bleach
rinsed out the filter I took out.
watered all the plants
I weeded a large area with my handy dandy tool - I left the the weeds on the walk, in the yard, so they can dry out before I put them in the compost. Dh took care of the bird food, I took care of the water.