Postby Elizabeth » Mon Sep 09, 2019 11:04 am
Good morning! Not sure how much difference I will be making to the world today, but I do have plans to make a difference for me. I have a carload of stuff that I will take to the animal org storage unit this evening. Yesterday, I ran a large load to Goodwill. Some people do spring cleaning, I do pre-Halloween party cleaning. Yesterday, I made a list of people to invite. I also balanced the checkbook, did church webwork, LOLs, and some party prep. I also determined the time and place of camping with friends. The time is non-negotiable. The place is semi-flexible: I need to have electric hookup in case DD17 needs to do homework. The friends are passengers, but DD is crew and essential to getting back in my yard. That establishes the hierarchy of who is considered first. Don't like it? Get your own camper.
Dentist trip went as expected, but the heater repair people had to reschedule to Saturday. He was able to push start the motor and get it running, but the noise level did not require special knowledge to know it would not last. It is possible to get a new motor and clean up the furnace, but realistically, the unit is 26 years old. He will be sending me prices based on a new and a 2 yo unit (still under 10 year factory warranty).
The animal org problem dog is now on more pain meds. The dog coordinator assures us that it is not a narcotic, but for neuropathic pain. I wish people would get over their fear of narcotics. Yes, they can be abused, but they can also be essential to quality of life while arranging surgery to fix the underlying problems. They are for dang sure necessary post surgery!
Good luck to Harriet on the after accident car search. Been there done that quite recently.
I think I'll skip CANI, too much like living with my x. I was always supposed to be improving. He would determine what to improve, how to improve it, and decide what was good enough. And, of course, nothing was ever good enough. If I did manage to get something sort of ok, it didn't matter because he had a long list of things to improve next. A disheartening target constantly propelled out of reach by a perfectionist. After I learned to ignore him and make my own happiness, he had an affair. That system will never be good for me.