I. Want. Clean. Clothes. My advice to all: if you have an old machine that works, take care of it, you will not get a similar any more.
I was experiencing this same washing machine aggravation shopping 4 years ago. I spent a lot of time researching online, visiting the big box stores and the little Mom & Pop Appliance stores. I wanted an old fashion washer without all the newly implemented controls for water saving and safety regulations. I wanted to open the lid and add something after the machine started. I wanted to control the water level. I wanted a heavy-duty washer that was built to last. After hours/days/weeks of searching, I found it. It wasn't available anywhere in the stores so I ended up having to order it from the factory and waiting for it to be shipped. It was delivered to my home. I have been 10000% satisfied with it.
This is the washer I bought but it has been discontinued. However, you can scroll down the page and see other washers that are comparable to it. The old fashion washing machine are available, but you won't find them on display in the stores.
DH is feeling better today. **Big sigh of relief** He is still in pain but it isn't that breathtaking pain level now.
I had a great night's sleep and felt ready to get going when I woke up. I have washed my hair and have most of the morning cards done.
1. Know what you want.
2. Go after it relentlessly.