Postby Kathryn-in-Canada » Thu Dec 05, 2019 9:30 am
I'm up and at it and have been for quite a while. The kitchen is tidied (but that was easy this morning, as there were only dinner dishes to put away.
I practiced all the cantata, this time pausing and moving to the keyboard to properly learn the passages I'm flubbing (I'd mark those at choir practice) and focusing on breathing. My diaphragm hurts now! I also went over the duet I want to learn with dh. Despite me asking, he hasn't practiced with me so I'm not sure what key he does it in. I can sing the key in which it is written, and to the recording of the song I have, but I note that dh has set it lower on his music which may mean I have to go an octave higher.
I have also got all the pieces ready to sew for the stocking. Just need to pull out and thread my machine. That will be a 10 minute sewing task, followed by 10 minutes of gluing and hand sewing on the bow and bell.
I chose the bell carefully. Over the years, as I realized I would be making these not just once for dsil but into the future, an unknown number of times, I started to squirrel away bells with the other supplies for these stockings. They were found when we shut down our parents' houses, some part of a worn out decoration, some still in their packaging, never used. So, while the stocking is new, it has a vintage bell on it and I try to make each one differen (looking carefully at pictures I've taken.)
A few years ago, dh came out of the office as I put up our stockings and commented the sound of the bell on his (which is distinct from mine and ds's since they were made decades apart) still fills his heart with joy when he hears it. So his stocking triggers memories through sight, sound, and touch. I hope my grandchildren will feel similar emotions from their stockings when they are adults. At the very least, I know I've stitched my love into them.
Before I sew, though, I will get dressed and have my breakfast.
Dh is out with ds for breakfast and then ds is coming here to sleep. I'm glad I did a slipshod vacuum yesterday. I had meant to fully clean on Tuesday but he was asleep here. I would have been upset to put off vacuuming much further.
I have until about 11:30, so 3 hours, before I have to leave with dh. I hope to get the car seat out of its packaging and installed into the car by then as well. If dgs is home (and awake) when I drop in, I want to size it for him. It is an easy adjustment but I may as well be ready to go, rather than trying to learn it while standing in the cold. If we need to adjust for Baby A or dgd, I'll be able to do so, but dgs is the most likely user of the seat in the foreseeable future. I need to see if it will go behind the driver's seat because I know the second seat won't fit there in rear facing mode.
If it doesn't, then he'll have to use it front facing which is against dd's ideal, although, after I bought it, she told me she would accept that in my car since it is infrequent. Most 3 year olds are front facing because parents turn the seat around as soon as the child is large enough. (My kids were moved around at a 14 months and in the case of dd and ds, it meant dd could pass ds things when ds was still rear facing.)
The driver can also make eye contact with them easily and point out things they'll find interesting. When they are facing backwards, it is much more difficult to see them (double mirrors work but are hard to adjust) and they can't see what I am seeing. Plus, if I say something is on the right side of the car, I have to remember that is dgs' left side. Yes, he knows his right from his left, which is surprisingly useful in many situations!
On the other hand, I still giggle when I remember dgs saying, "Mommy, if you keep going this direction, you will hit the building!" as she was backing up out of a tight parking spot!