LadyM, I don't think dgs8 is TOTALLY self-sufficient in the hair-washing department. I don't really trust him to rinse well -- or to wash well! In the spring he gets his hair cut really short -- not a "buzz cut" but pretty short. He can rinse okay while it's that short, but when it starts growing out and getting thicker, he will leave lots of shampoo in there if I don't help him rinse. He doesn't mind me being in the bathroom with him still, so surely he will get the hang of this by the time his modesty kicks in. I don't know what they do when he's home, but a lot of the time, he looks like he needs to wash his hair, IMHO (when it is longer.)
DGD5 wants to be self-sufficient and thinks she is, but she still needs some assistance too.
I have heard a lot of good stuff about the wet brush. I think dgd has one.
So. THIS. THIS is why we need routines.
If we don't have routines, we skip the laundry for one day and one day becomes two, and two becomes three, and then a tree falls and Lucy falls into depression and here we are (were) at midnight last night thinking, "I have two options for clothing for the ballgame tonight" --
(1) wear the same jeans I've worn the last two days or
(2) wear jeans that likely won't be completely dry after washing.
DH suggested washing ONLY the one pair of jeans I needed, on quick wash cycle, so I got them out before I went to sleep, and they are hanging to dry in the laundry room doorway. I do not want to dry my pants completely in the dryer because I worry about shrinkage, but I think these will be dry enough that they won't be uncomfortable in another hour.
SIGH.
I have another load in the wash/dry cycle now and I am going to try to let this be a lesson to me.
I've also been on the phone, texting all day, re: dfriend's husband I mentioned in prayer request. Talking to her and another mutual friend. The husband is scheduled for surgery tomorrow.
Today is the 8th anniversary of my ddad's death, and that always gets me all in my feelings too. My dad and I had such a complicated relationship -- I know he loved me and I loved him, but we butted heads on practically every issue that came up from the moment I learned to talk. And yes, we were Just Alike in sooo many ways. Such perfectionists, both prone to obsessing and worrying about everything, quick-tempered especially with the people closest to us. But still so many things come up and I think, "I wish my daddy was here to fix this, or take care of this situation, or tell me what he thinks..." I guess you never stop missing your dad -- or mom.
Of course, I am sooo sooo thankful for my mom this weekend, and the changes she has experienced since ddad's death. She was in a rough place the first few years, and dh maintains that I saved her life, but I am just grateful that she is relatively healthy and managing to have a good life today.
Waving to ALL. Must go flip the laundry!
(((Twins)))