Whew! I think I just ran out of spoons.
After a VERY short night -- more on that later -- we went to church, where dgrands sang in the children's choir, a preview of Wednesday night's Christmas program. DGS also sang a solo -- "Away in a Manger" -- but almost didn't get through it because his stomach was hurting again and he was nauseous. Sigh. He was the same way Saturday night during his ballgame. Threw up twice. I don't know what they are going to do about this. He has no fever, no real other symptoms. Can't help but wonder if all this chewing up everything he gets his hands on for all his life has led to this. I told him -- and I was only partly joking -- someday he is going to end up in surgery, and he will be like the Labrador that had eaten 17 pairs of socks.
Anyway -- he did make it through piano lessons after taking some Tums during church.
After church, I did all the "stuff" -- lunch, clean up kitchen, buy/put away groceries, allergy shots... and then finally sent one kid to one bedroom and the other to the other. Too much carrying on while they were playing with the Nativity scene. What started as fun ended in screaming and arguing and I just could not take it any more.
I have been meaning to wish you a Happy Hanukkah, Twins, and I wanted to send (((HUGS))) to LadyM's ds and the gf and I do hope she recovers well.
Always thinking of Harmony.
And NOW... why was my night so short? I am sooo embarrassed, y'all, but I might as well tell you.
Last night, I saw an ad on FB for an "infinity" game table... on sale for $39.99. (If anyone here is as ignorant as me, this is an electronic game table with 50 games pre-loaded -- Monopoly, Scrabble, Battleship, etc. No more pieces to lose, no storage issues, no arguing over scoring.
Y'all, I had never seen one of these before, had no idea what they were supposed to cost, I just thought, "Oh my goodness, this would be PERFECT for dmom to give the dgrands for Christmas... " and yep... I ordered it.
W..e..l..l..
I paused a minute when I saw they didn't take P*yp*l... but not a long enough minute... and pretty soon, I've put my credit card info into their order form.
THEN... ONLY THEN... I started to look at Ariver, etc, to see what these things cost elsewhere. (Maybe a Wmart ad for one popped up, I don't remember.)
Y'ALL -- THESE THINGS COST RIGHT AT $999 AT SOME PLACES, AND THE LOWEST PRICE I SAW WAS $499!!!!!!! So I'm like
Then, I was just frantic... must talk to credit card company... must stop payment... oh my goodness I do not want to change cards again.
There are a couple dozen places I have to re-do card if this happens, dh medicine renewals, ticket things, on and on...
Last time it happened, through no fault of our own, it seemed like it took two or three days. Lots of phone calls, lots of websites.
At any rate, 24-hour help was NOT helpful for a LONG while... but I FINALLY got a live person to talk to me at 2:00 a.m.
He said, there was no way they could do anything as long as it was a "pending" charge, (which it currently still is) and although he could not FORCE me to change cards, he would advise it. As soon as the charge goes through, he will help us try to get the money back, because yes, he agreed, it is obvious these people are doing something underhanded. They may just want my $39.99 and we will never have any additional problems.
DH and I decided we will watch statement CLOSELY and let this ride for a bit. At the first fraudulent, unrecognizable charge, we will start the process of getting new cards.
The credit card company said this is not "fraud" because we KNOW how they got our number. Fraud is when a charge pops up out of the blue and you don't know how on earth your number got out there.
That might happen in this case, but it might not.
Right now, dh is too stressed about his doctor's appointment Tuesday to have any spoons left for this.
I just feel awful because it was ALL my fault. So stupid. If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. But I had no idea this thing was THIS much too good to be true. I thought maybe it should be $100 and it was 60% off or something.
Lesson learned.