an oh my moment: dh pulled my bow and arrows out of the garbage because he thought I should ask my brother. I had and he didn't know anyone who could use it. I wish he wouldn't pull out things that are mine that I donate or toss but the long of the short of it is that the bow and arrows are now in the trash again.
lol I know why people use black garbage bags so that their loved ones don't see what they are donating.