Postby blessedw2 » Mon Jan 11, 2021 10:27 am
truth: I like being honest: I joined a program when it was on sale for $49.00 (minimal moms price at the time) with a group: Take your house back.
I will say there are things I don't have to go through any more but they go over some of the things I learned on my own.
One talk is about how why we keep things - our past self, what we wanted to be, who we imagine who we are or will be if we have this this and that.
Our identity is wrapped up in the stuff that we can't possibly do everything and be everything. (and there is or can be grief in that)
. I went through that when I listed all the things I wanted to do that showed up in my house. there were way to many projects re: crafts, too many sport stuff who i can't be anymore even if I wanted to, and too many dreams and big ideas that they buried me. They said it is like denial and grief of who you wanted to be and who you were now and for me and others trying to over-goal on too many things that multiple lifetimes would take to do it. - so true. I learned this the last few years but it's good for me to hear it again.
My plan:
I have been decluttering for years - but still want to get the rest out. I know that decluttering is life long but chaos with the stuff doesn't have to be. lol if only I could get dh on board. (but he has made some headway)
it is always a joy to be here with you!