I so resemble this, Harriet. I so need to exercise and can barely bring myself to start. Noticed Friday that there's a card swipe for Silver Sneakers at the rehab where dh is going. I know I need to ask them if that's for anyone -like me who is a member. Just wondering what it would be for me to take part on some of the equipment.Still exercise eluded me. Obviously this is mental. I am having a half-thought run through my mind when I consider exercising that is very negative. Something about guilt that there is so much to do otherwise that I "should" spend my time otherwise
Right now my focus is so much on dh. A dfriend stopped by today and for once someone was honest and told dh he looks like s... He is tired and certainly not sleeping or coughing any better. Nurse is coming here in about 15 minutes so will ask her (I think) what she thinks about dh seeing his beloved gp. At least for the cough and he's been having issues with not being able to use the bathroom for quite a few minutes often -15-20 minutes (voiding). That brings up another whole ball of wax, doesn't it.