Nancy, You don't look old enough, in your Avatar photo, to me, to be a granny! You look so young!
I need to tweak my B.W.P., too. DH no longer gets wood. He got it all in for winter. Tues. and/or Thurs. seems to work out to be appt. days, perhaps from the wood-getting M-W-F summer habit. I enjoy being flexible, but feel like there is not enough structure. DH is a flexible man, so it's hard for me to have more structure, when his and my days sort of clash. I'm working from home, he's retired, so when he's getting groceries or visits his friend, I do stuff I need to do.
So far I've come up with:
Sun. = Renew spirit day, catch-up on laundry, snail mail, reading, and plan the week out. Work on stories.
Mon. = Submit stories, study them or outline them. Get snail mail out, do laundry and dishes and a bit of housework, left undone on the weekend.
Tues. = Usually an appt. day, if I have any scheduled. I try to take this day off from writing, work on the house, read, do letters, and enjoy myself, crochet and just have fun.
Wed. = It's a day that I try to get things done I've been procrastinating on since the weekend, I clean my office, do paperwork and sort of a mid-week house blessing because Thurs. is garbage day, so trash goes out.
Thurs. = Is a day DH goes to the dr., if he's scheduled to. I start thinking about the weekend, work on my on-line calendar, and still plan the weekend. I try to send out letters this day, too, because when DH gets the empty garbage can, he can mail my letters.
Fri. = Planning the weekend and next week. I try to dust, dust mop, do toilets, and clean bathrooms, send any stories if I have anything, read, start to wind down from a busy week.
Sat. = A day that I should save for reading and writing, but I need time off, too. DH watches football and baseball on these days, so it's sort of a day to relax. He vacuums on Sat., too.
I work around health challenges, DH and what he's doing or not doing, and try to be flexible as I can, but still have some sort of structure so I can keep writing and sending stories.
It's difficult for me to try and balance the house and work, when I'm working at home, because I'm still home, working. If that makes any sense? It's not like I'm going outside the home to an office. I'm still here. Closing the door to the office helps a lot.