lol there is always more to do the get back to normal... lol
cheering you on d nancy
still working on my paperwork:
I got the book on CD: get out of debt book: and I am finding it very interesting. Since it's a sidetracked home executive book it seems to hit my thinking; just hoping it helps my actions as well.
She mentioned there is a little brat in many of us that "want" what we want and live like we may have at one time or beyond our means. I can't tell you how many times I have heard that little brat in me say - no one is going to stop me from doing what I want or my home would be perfect if I .... especially when it comes for going out for a really nice dinner and or an activity. I have learned the inner voice when it comes to the house (most times
) but still can struggle with the I wanna do this and not listen to that inner voice - I tell myself I can't afford anything (we call that Debbie Downer talk) and I am going to do it any way because "I deserve it" (that's the little brat inside of me). Very interesting. I will tell you all how it works.
First part of the assignment (my idea) to see what is currently calling me which is really "I WANT IT' rather than "I actually need it". too many times I get that mixed up.
I have lots of wants rather than needs
For me: I had a lot of reminders this season of my ego calling me and God trying to help me see what was happening... helping me by pulling the rug out of me for certain things.
I spent more than I should on the white elephant silly gifts and they didn't do them this year... went home and laughed because God gave me this reminder to help me move forward from my ego and stinker in me.