you may not realize how much better you made me feel Dharriet!
I understand about the desk. I can no longer have my desk with my family. I tend to mess up their things especially dh and ddyounger. I am falling behind on my cards here and organizing anything with paperwork in my realm (dh does the bills) I just take care of my and girls credit cards - and figuring out a budget for me and figure out where I spend money. (so far behind).
picking up my gumption too and getting a can do attitude