Finally have gathered all info relating to taxes for us and my ddad. The last form finally arrived, after I called to complain. They said lots of people hadn't gotten theirs (hmmmm) , and the forms had to be mailed by a certain date - not received by a certain date, which insulted my intelligence since the PO is not that negligent, and we all know it.
So I sat with last year's record keeping I did for tax folks, and used that as my guide to type out all the relevant info (I hope) and will be able to drop this by the tax folks' office today.
Another time today to feel the sting of a little more grief over my ddad's death. I've noticed it really happens when I need to use his return-address labels, of all things. Have had many occasions to need those for estate things or, like today, when I'll use one to identify this envelope I'll hand-deliver to secretaries.