Nobody is judging us!
))) Thanks. I
think I am judging me
You are right -- we just have to keep it a little bit loose/flexible, because LIFE is going to happen. And LIFE is a lot better than keeping up with a rigid cleaning schedule, right? I mean, I probably should start asking myself, "What will make me feel better right now? What do I really need to do?" Sometimes it honestly might be to take a nap. But sometimes I know in my heart that I will feel better if I "just do it" re: some chore I'm procrastinating on.
But when LIFE involves playing with dgrands, or doing something that makes dh happy, or taking care of something dmom needs... well then, in the long run it doesn't matter which week of the "focus" calendar I'm on, right?
I think I must try to start looking at that focus calendar as a map, a guide -- but not a law that I must live by. If I spend more or less time at one stop, it won't matter in the long run. I'm still going to be moving towards my destination.