Dee - such a difficult time as your DSon/DDIL deals with end of life. I would suggest asking her what food sounds good to her. If she has 20 minutes - 20 days of time left then ANYthing is acceptable. If she only wants to eat ice cream and Oreos then I think that is what she should have. IMHO, at this time in her limited lifespan, she shouldn't be concerned about eating healthy. Each bite of food should only be things that she loves.
Our DFriend Linda is still hanging in there. She has exceeded all the doctors expected time left. DH takes Linda a Chocolate Milkshake several times a week. Linda loves the milkshakes but most of all she loves the attention of having DH deliver them to her. Linda's sister says that is what is keeping Linda alive.
I don't know what is going on with our computers, network & ISP. I'm trying to take it in stride and not let it distract me but it COULD BE FRUSTRATING. It took me over 15 minutes to get DS9 computer to act right so he could do his online lessons.
Now back to my bathroom cleaning.....*POOF*