And thinking of bad attitudes about my x: I had to email him again to get proof of DD16's medical expenses. He provided proof of what the providers were paid. This is not what he paid, and not what he is claiming to have paid. I just want to pay him and be done. I've even got the money for an immediate transfer from my bank account to his. I don't have serious doubts about the total, though data entry errors are possible. However, I know (because he told me) that the other woman prepared the spreadsheet. This time it is probably honest, but I would bet $100 that if I don't insist on documentation, the next will not be. And, if you overpay on child support by mistake, there is no legal way to get your money back. You can probably get it back if you prove deliberate fraud, but I doubt that would be easy.
I do hope my x is monitoring his investment accounts. It would be very easy to cheat him out of substantial sums. I tried to keep him in the loop, but he wanted no part of it. I did leave the paperwork for all his accounts with him, nicely labelled in the files, so he or an accountant can check my financial management, but I have no idea about her. Interestingly, there was a group of HER friends from art class that I met through her, who said they expected her to take him for everything he had. They hate her now, kicked her out of the class, and made me welcome for the next two years. I had to quit the class when my commute made it impossible to attend, but she remains persona non grata there.
The x probably thinks I am being deliberately obstinate and obstructive. However, any lawyer would agree that I am entitled to proof. When I do get it, I intend to make that transfer same day (a) to get it over with and (b) to furnish absolute proof of non-deadbeat status. Whatever horrible things they want to say, they cannot say I don't pay my debts. The latest I have ever been was 3 days, only once, and I notified HIM about it. (Terribly embarrassing and due to an honest but stupid mistake on my part).
Canadian Pharmacy/US Pharmacy has tracked me down again. Do they really think I am going to buy V iagra for my neutered tomcats?