I'm having a different type of Sunday than I normally do, but all is going as smoothly as can be.
I saw a couple of questions directed toward me earlier but I was on the go and couldn't stop to answer.
RE: - teenagers cooking. yes they do cook dishes and meals. They are gradually becoming more independent in the planning, purchasing and preparing of meals. However, the bulk of the 3 P's (planning, purchasing and preparing) meals remains with me. I don't mind it because it is something that I enjoy doing. I am way more particular than the teens with ingredients & portions that I eat.
RE: DD14 driving & a vehicle for her. In our state, 15 years olds can get learners permit (after taking a drivers education class) to drive with an adult in the car until they are 16 years old and able to drive alone. I like they have a year to be monitored & mentored as they learn and experience the rules of the road. We don't have any form of public transportation here. Everyone drives a car or has someone drive them. DD14 will need her own vehicle. We can get it now while she is learning to drive or later when she can drive alone. If I let DD14 drive my vehicle there is a high probability that it will be damaged as she is learning. If that happens then what do I drive? i would immediately have to go buy another vehicle for myself. The thought of being without a vehicle and having to quickly get another one stresses me out. I have put out the "word" to family and friends that we are looking for a good used vehicle for DD14. There is no hurry to purchase one for her but hopefully over the next few months one will become available. Anyone have an extra vehicle equipped with plenty of safety features & air bags they want to sell? I'm not opposed to it having roll bars, extra bumpers, etc.
DS17 learned to drive starting at a young age on our tractor when we lived on the farm. He gradually progressed with his driving skills with learning on atv, side-by-sides, and go carts in the pasture. We live in town now so DD14 doesn't have those opportunities.