On Friday, DH and I had a minor "tiff". Nothing major, but it upset me to make me roll my eyes

and bite my tongue.
On Saturday, DD called, all cheerful and said, "Boy! You and Dad have your 44th Wedding Anniversary coming up on Friday! That's a lot of years!"
I said,"Too many- sometimes,too."
She said, "Oh? Was it one of those days?"
I said, "Yesterday sure was!" and we laughed!
THIS a.m., I was having an asthma attack, DH did not know, I did not tell him, but at the same time he was asking, "Do you want me to fix your coffee? Do you want coffee?"
I said, "I CAN'T have coffee. I haven't even eaten yet or had meds or ANYTHING. No, I don't want coffee."
He said, "I don't need all the explanations!

I just needed a SIMPLE NO!"
Later, of course, I explained to him about my asthma attack at the same time he'd asked. We've kissed and made up, but I'm wondering if we're going to survive it to Friday on our 44th wedding anniversary!?!"

It's like every other day we have a "misunderstanding". I can't figure it OUT. We're getting along wonderfully all the time, except for a moment every other day or so, when we get confused with each other. I guess marriage is like this?

I love him dearly, it was love ♥ at first sight for me and like last night, TV was on. The "America's Ninja Warrior" was on. There was a contestant, who was called "The Adonis". I laughed about it. Last night, DH kissed me goodnight. I said, "I love you, my Adonis!" He laughed and said, "Sure... yeh.... right!" And we both laughed about each other. I have photos of him, at age 18, 22, and 28 on my office wall and he was a HUNK, for sure! So yes, to me, he IS my Adonis.

I just hope the rest of our week goes more smoothly than Friday and this morning did. It's so unusual for us to do this. I'm concerned about a dental appt., whether I'll have a root canal or crown put on new, I'm concerned about his insulin/drug study med being increased now for the second time, and I think I'm worried about little things I have no control over. BUT when I do my ROUTINES, putter, declutter, and do housework, and feather my nest and add order to our environment, things seem like the glasses are rosy, which I look out of and all is right with the world and our relationship and ALL relationships in general. I'll try to do things today, so I can come back later and TRULY TOOT MY HORN!
