Sorry just rushing through this morning...
Before I forget...MT ...daily showers with diluted apple cider vinegar will help your pup I promise. I fill a 2 quart container with warm water and the vinegar and rinse Willis in my tub. He loves it and it is really helping him. I also give him a benedryl pill in the morning. If the grass is wet...like after we water it...and he goes out and rolls in it, he comes back in the house with his entire back swollen in bumps...its awful looking.
What I have decided is whatever bugs are living in the grass/dirt must be looking for water and surface to the top of the ground once its wet. Then Willis goes outside, rolls in the grass and while he's down in it those bugs bit the stuffing out of him. Who knew I would end up with a dog who's allergic to stuff outside.
I have a young friend who has two very small children. I spent two days at her home while doing the community yard sale the other week. She is a TOTAL SHE and was so completely embarrassed to have me inside her home. I told her I didn't "see" the mess and wouldn't judge her.
During the sale I took pictures of her 3 yr old dd eating a chocolate frosted doughnut covered with sprinkles. Yesterday I had the prints and stopped by her house to give them to her. Once again I found her in a tizzy about the condition of her house. Looks like it came straight out of the P&P sisters.
Explained I had the same problem and if she wasn't offended I had a system that I could share with her that might just help her out. After I shared a bit about how the "box" worked she wanted to know everything. So at her begging and request this afternoon I am bring my books and box to her.
Before I left I said...do you find yourself working in your bedroom, discover a glass, take it to the kitchen, then find something to do there and the cycle continues....She laughed and said...that's me, that's me.
As I was walking out the door, I told her I had a simple solution for that...a laundry basket. Told her how I put on in the doorway of the room I am working in and place the items that belong in other rooms in it so I stay working where I need to be.
Her response was...that's an ingenuous idea!!! and went running to get hers.
I so feel for her remembering how I struggled to get my house and home in order back when I was her age. And I am so excited about being able to help her. I also remember how much peace and harmony using the system brought into my life. I hope that I can pay it forwards.
It's raining its pouring so I am working around the house. Laundry is spinning away, my three legged table is up, and I hope to get the tree done by this afternoon.
I am really excited about seeing Peter Pan tonight...The song, I Won't Grow Up is so me. I've always try to find the kid like fun in my life.
Y'all have a great day... Hang in there Harmony. Don't be so hard on yourself, you're doing a wonderful job. My husband prior to Sweetie was a builder and I faced many of the same challenges as you. And I can so identify with an aging man who still believes he's the man he's always been, but his body is proving to him otherwise.
I am so thankful that Sweetie is able to continue using his life-learned skills even though he is retired. He will be 68 in March and is still as strong as he ever was. On the other hand, my son's father is 65 and retired at 55. He has more money than God and is so unhappy. His health is poor, he's over weight and just plain miserable with life. We still have a great relationship so its hard for me to watch this once strong, viral man who ran a major corporation for years, become a shell of himself. Sometimes I get so frustrated with him I want to shake him to change if only for my son's sake.
Got run...I'm getting way to sidetracked.
