Re: Splendiforous Saturday
Posted: Sat Dec 13, 2014 9:59 am
(((Blessed))) for travel worries with a youngster. My ds managed to refrain from mentioning any travel problems he had (self-caused) on his last trip so I didn't hear about them until he was safely in the car on the way home (albeit at 3 in the morning but that's due to the airline, not his carelessness, although the airline's delay meant he made the flight he would have otherwise missed due to carelessness!)
Forgot to mention about my ring issue.
I wear three all the time - my wedding/engagement (it's now one ring); a plain gold one that ds picked out for me when he was around 4 - he brought me a catalog and pointed to the ring and said that was what he'd give me if he had lots of money so I coughed up the $90 and bought it for myself; and my pre-engagement ring - a sapphire that dh designed for me with the intention of adding diamonds later when he could afford them.
Since 2007, my wedding and pre-engagement rings have been in and out of the shop. I guess after 22+ years, they are simply wearing out. The third time my wedding rings were into the shop we had them remade into one ring, much stronger, and added some diamond and sapphire chips around the main (very small) diamond. The jeweler had me bring in old rings I didn't wear any more and added that gold to my ring so it contains bits of my growing up, family history, as well as the new stones.
My sapphire broke in one spot so we took it in for repairs and added those diamond (actually large chips) that dh envisioned for it. It broke (I think) a second time in a different spot or was just resized as well. Can't recall which.
I thought maybe my rings were breaking so much because I was taking the ones with the stones off each night. So, since they've been remade, I've been leaving them on. I always did when traveling but I started to do so when home. And during the move it was important to keep them on me.
Anyway, due to the pain in my hands/arms, I recently went back to taking them off. Three nights ago, I realized I had lost a diamond from the pre-engagement ring. So had a cry over that and put it aside for when I have time to get it fixed. Dug out a ruby/diamond ring my father bought from a pawn shop for his mother during the depression and have been wearing that because I can't stand for my right-hand ring finger to be 'naked.'
Last night, was applauding and adjusted the ring after. It felt funny so I looked down and sure enough, a ruby was missing! Sigh.... At least in this case I knew the ruby had to be nearby since I hadn't moved since the previous applause and had adjusted the ring then without any sign of a problem. So I put the ring in my change purse and looked down carefully. Eventually, I found the ruby stuck to my skirt so I put it away too.
Now both rings and the one stone I've found are in a little bag, waiting to go to the shop. I dug out a ring I bought while on the cruise (when my wedding ring broke) and will wear that on my right hand until I can get my rings fixed. I have a stunning diamond/ruby ring my dad gave my mom (not from a pawn shop!) and a pearl ring and an opal ring, I could wear, but I'm worried I'll damage the good ring and the pearl and opal aren't strong enough to hold up to my right hand motion.
So, there's another errand I need to run. Until I get those in the shop I think I'll be unsettled.
BTW: I haven't moved since my previous post!
Forgot to mention about my ring issue.
I wear three all the time - my wedding/engagement (it's now one ring); a plain gold one that ds picked out for me when he was around 4 - he brought me a catalog and pointed to the ring and said that was what he'd give me if he had lots of money so I coughed up the $90 and bought it for myself; and my pre-engagement ring - a sapphire that dh designed for me with the intention of adding diamonds later when he could afford them.
Since 2007, my wedding and pre-engagement rings have been in and out of the shop. I guess after 22+ years, they are simply wearing out. The third time my wedding rings were into the shop we had them remade into one ring, much stronger, and added some diamond and sapphire chips around the main (very small) diamond. The jeweler had me bring in old rings I didn't wear any more and added that gold to my ring so it contains bits of my growing up, family history, as well as the new stones.
My sapphire broke in one spot so we took it in for repairs and added those diamond (actually large chips) that dh envisioned for it. It broke (I think) a second time in a different spot or was just resized as well. Can't recall which.
I thought maybe my rings were breaking so much because I was taking the ones with the stones off each night. So, since they've been remade, I've been leaving them on. I always did when traveling but I started to do so when home. And during the move it was important to keep them on me.
Anyway, due to the pain in my hands/arms, I recently went back to taking them off. Three nights ago, I realized I had lost a diamond from the pre-engagement ring. So had a cry over that and put it aside for when I have time to get it fixed. Dug out a ruby/diamond ring my father bought from a pawn shop for his mother during the depression and have been wearing that because I can't stand for my right-hand ring finger to be 'naked.'
Last night, was applauding and adjusted the ring after. It felt funny so I looked down and sure enough, a ruby was missing! Sigh.... At least in this case I knew the ruby had to be nearby since I hadn't moved since the previous applause and had adjusted the ring then without any sign of a problem. So I put the ring in my change purse and looked down carefully. Eventually, I found the ruby stuck to my skirt so I put it away too.
Now both rings and the one stone I've found are in a little bag, waiting to go to the shop. I dug out a ring I bought while on the cruise (when my wedding ring broke) and will wear that on my right hand until I can get my rings fixed. I have a stunning diamond/ruby ring my dad gave my mom (not from a pawn shop!) and a pearl ring and an opal ring, I could wear, but I'm worried I'll damage the good ring and the pearl and opal aren't strong enough to hold up to my right hand motion.
So, there's another errand I need to run. Until I get those in the shop I think I'll be unsettled.
BTW: I haven't moved since my previous post!