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Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 12:06 pm
by Nancy
Our server was down for a while seems ok now yea. I need to rememver to take it easy still fighting the cold. The three Ds are a perfect place to begin.
Got the compost pile moved filled on low spots in the back yard so I can see progress now! Happy we found a farm for the chickens that need to move out of the city.

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 12:21 pm
by Harmony
Have fun planting your flowers, RRose. We got the mulch spread all across the front. It looks very nice.

(Lilac) so sorry you have so much going on and such a big challenge, but I know you can do it.

Lucylee, I loved your opening. It made me think of something I printed out years ago and have on the cover of my household notebook - Just for Today by Ralph Marston.

Well I have so much more to do outside. Going to go work on another spot now. What I put in across the front is Japanese Boxwood. I have a couple of those around the side and they've thrived.

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 1:05 pm
by Lilac
Nancy, do your colds seem to last longer since your diabetes diagnosis? Anytime I have a cold it really hits hard and the 3 D's are all I can count on accomplishing. Take care of yourself and rest as much as you can.

Harmony, we have boxwoods but I don't know what kind. I need to get more mulch on them.

Harmony, I tend to fall apart at the beginning of whatever the situation is. Then I can pull up those big girl panties and do what I have to. My dm is the opposite. She is strong all through whatever the situation is. When it is over, she completely falls apart. 39 years ago db2 was a passenger in a car with 5 occupants. They hit a train. 1 friend was killed. Our dad's then girlfriend/ now wife's 15 year old daughter was paralyzed and is a quadraplegic.
The other 3 were severely injured. Db2 was 17 at the time. He had severe head injuries and a back injury. He was in the hospital over a week. This happened an hour east of our hometown. My dm lived 30 minutes west of us. She had just started dating dstepdad and he brought her to our house and we took her to the hospital. Dd2 was 2 1/2 weeks old. That was the first time we had met dstepdad. He was only child and his late wife was an only child. They had 2 sons. He had never been around a baby girl and I have always thought it was love at first sight. The 2 of them had a bond that was beautiful to see. Well anyway, the day dm brought db2 home from the hospital, they came to our house. They both wanted to see the baby. My dm walked in and then just collapsed in my arms, with the most heart breaking sobs. I don't know which is the worst, before or after. I just know that I always do what has to be done, because I have loved ones that count on me.

I have a list going in my head of what needs done. Getting our taxes done and getting a cardiologist appt are at the top of the list. Also dh will need pj tops that button instead of being pulled over the head. He has 6 or 7 pairs of bottoms and if he wears them, he just uses a t-shirt for the top. His is not a pj person but will have to be while in the hospital. So I will get him some 2 piece, button down sets and a thin robe.

Dh always dresses before he leaves our bedroom. He either puts on what he wore yesterday until he showers or he showers and dresses before he leaves our room. Even though the girls are grown, he still does this. He is one of those people that always looks neat no matter what kind of clothes he has on.

Dd2 has always laughed about a guy"s dad she dated. They would go to his house and his dad would be watching TV in a white t shirt and his tighty-whities. Dd2 says my ddad never did that, so it was always a shock and the guy wasn't embarrassed at all.

I just talked to dsisil older, she said she will be there for the surgery. She said dsisil younger is upset that she won't be able to go. I told her we will go see dsisil2 either before the surgery or on the way home. I had thought about going through there on our way home, but dh has came down with a cold. She is on weekly chemo and can't be around him with a cold.

Yikes, the day is getting away, must get busy....................

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 1:22 pm
by Nancy
I got the chicken chores done.
Had a phumoinia shot after getting my diab. Rx this cold does not seem any worse than before but I rarely got ill with flu or colds before.

We are going to have rain today here happy to stay home n side puttering taking it wasy with the 3 Ds. I have a plan for dinner.
Dishes next x. I cleaned off some of the counter so H was able to fix his own omlette.

Then Later - Round up laundry get it to the laundry zone this afternoon. X

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 1:50 pm
by helia
You have a lot going on, ((Lilac)). That car accident sounds awful. I had to chuckle at your comments about your dh dressing before he leaves the bedroom. Dh here - no, not at all. He's not very modest at all, to be honest. Not in a creepy way, it's just the way he is. I say it's because he is European. . . . He tried to be more modest once the girls were older, but he still has his moments. For sure, there's never a dull day living with dh. One never knows what sort of idea he'll get into his head and when, one of the many reasons I'm so glad I married him. ;) Neatness - I'll just say that dh looks neat more often than he used to.

--edited out a story. .

I didn't know that colds and illness are worse for those with diabetes.

I'm ready to run errands now. I have: started a load of kitchen laundry, boiled some eggs, sat down with dh and dd16 and had lunch (they had brunch), s2s-ed, pupa our hotspot on the kitchen island, and cleaned up the kitchen.

Dd16 is stressing b/c she ordered some material for orders she needs to fill (from her etsy shop), and the material has not yet arrived. This is the 3rd time she's ordered from this company. First time, they sent the wrong material. She sent it back. Second time, the package got lost in the mail. They refunded her. Third time: it was due to be delivered by Thursday. Tracking number doesn't reveal anything. We're not even sure if it has shipped. Dd16 has orders that need to be received in Europe by the end of this month, so time is ticking.

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 2:20 pm
by Lilac
helia, I don't know if colds or illnesses are worse with diabetes for everybody, but I know any cold I have gotten in the last 6 years has seemed to hang on longer than it should. I sure wish there was a quick fix for the common cold, because they can show up at the worst possible time, special occasions, trips, company, holidays, etc.

Dh's back is causing him problems since we moved that furniture. He plans to go to the chiropractor on Monday. We took the car, because it's/was clean inside and out. It was harder getting in and out of that, than the SUV.

I keep watching for FelineFriend to check in. I pray everything is alright with them.

I tried to find this site on my phone while waiting. I was using www. instead of bb., so I hope that is the problem. I hate to be cut off from everyone for more than a few days.

helia, was dd16s package being sent through the USPS? If so, that explains a lot. As I ranted the other day, service is getting sloppy.

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 3:20 pm
by Harriet
Post will be full of addle-brained-ness, see below. This does not stop me talking, however. Much to detriment of making sense.

Lilac, I was thinking that even if a facial nerve were nicked, what would you care because it would probably just make him look rugged like Eastwood anyway, and so what, since all these preparations and proactive decisions are aimed at keeping him with you a long, long time, which is the point. Wonderful that you two had the presence of mind to get MRI that way.

Lilac, you also made me think of 2 recent negative news pieces. One about the prescription helps for stopping smoking and one about the flooring company you mentioned. Probably neither here nor there for you, but the kind of thing I would mention if we had lots of time to talk IRL

helia, my dd considered your dd's etsy briefly but then learned that the event a friend has asked her to dress for (costume) was extremely soon, not as far in the future as friend made it sound, so she decided to be an encourager rather than participant. I really doubt that dd would dress for a - whatever that thing is with costumes - cosplay? - very intently because her time just doesn't allow, but for a while she was thinking that at least she knew, because of your posts, a good way to find quality costume.

Men looking neat around the house ... ... well, my ddad used to. In and out of the house, his "uniform" all his life from morning to night was khakis, both slacks and buttoned shirt. Except for church, he never wore a "new" outfit, only khaki replacements for the original. :) Near the end of his life, dd35 gave him some softer cotton plaid shirts, and he did change to them sometimes for comfort, but this was in his nineties.

HRH at some point in life discovered the miracle of sweatpants. As he walks through the house upon returning home, by the time he reaches the bedroom he is undoing his slacks. Around the corner into the closet his next steps are walking him out of them. They are hung onto a hook in case he (very unfortunately, he would believe) might need them during the late part of the day. The next few steps are into the sweatpants, reversing his course, and THEN he is home.

About being sick - what is it when your early morning sleep is disturbed by the half-thought "I have a headache" and then you ache at the base of the skull for the whole morning, but also have the sniffles? addle-brained (this is me, btw) Eyes are mad when you ask them to focus? There is no cold or bug. Is this something new blooming causing an allergy? Or the barometer or something... ... Okay, I just remember accu-weather's headache info. Today has a big RED label saying "At Risk weather for sinus headaches". And it has a :!: beside it. Uuuuuugghhh. Tomorrow says neutral and next day beneficial. Now, because I have read this, will I get better faster because mentally I believe accu-weather has predicted my recovery? Will it happen because I am susceptible to pressure/barometer or because I am susceptible to suggestion? Attempted smile :arrow: :|

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 4:02 pm
by Ramblinrose
Wow Harriet, you certainly have a lot going on in your brain today :D

I finished my planting. Mine are mostly containers. I have planted my new sunflowers but they too are in a pot. I need to work on their bedding which means I need to come up with a watering system...think I've already got on...work on the soil and then transplant the seedlings.

I now need a shower and do something with my nails. It was deadly hot outside today and I'm glad I started early. I am NOT ready for this heat :evil: Right now a nap sounds good...if only I could sleep when I lay down in the middle of the day. :lol:

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 4:25 pm
by helia
Yes, Lilac, dd16's package is being sent through the USPS. Now that I think of it, we've had some issues with the mail over the last few months too. I know one check I wrote never arrived at its destination. . . Dh had a big issue a couple months ago with UPS (not USPS) who lost a high technology shipment that was needed for dh's research. He was not happy. It was worth many ks (research $$). They reimbursed him the monetary cost, but the lost time for experiments and developments can't be reimbursed. . . .

Ah, well, I'm glad your dd16 considered my dd16's costumes, Harriet. I understand not wanting to dress up. Dd16 now has a cloak on there that is also selling nicely. It seems to fall nicely around the cloak-wearer. Many of her sales are overseas, which is interesting. Dd16 deals with cms. or inches. She knows a lot about shipping prices and times now too. Someone today just ordered a red riding hood cloak for his wife-to-be. How charming!

Well, how interesting - dh and I just had a short discussion about how we both have mild headaches. I feel sure mine is a sinus thing, since I have a history of dealing with sinus headaches as I developed allergies to mold? in Austin, TX. No allergies since I moved, though. Dh feels his is due to a long sleep last night.

I'm back and have successfully bought 100 lbs. chicken feed and fewer pounds of human feed. :) Dd19 will be around for dinner, so it will be nice to see her tonight. She will probably do laundry while here, so I need to push more laundry through the twins before she arrives.

Next:
- update laundry
- change clothes
- go for a jog. . .

Re: Things to Remember Saturday

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2015 5:30 pm
by Harmony
Helia, how do you ever move a 100 lb. sack? Yikes!

Lilac, I echo Harriet at least about the flooring company. Google that and epa California, that should find the problem pretty quickly.

Here we've had lots of problems with Chin ese Dry wall. Dry wall made in China a few years back which turns toxic as it off-gasses and ruins plumbing, wiring, air conditioning coils. It's a real mess.

Harriet, hope the headache goes away.

I finished the front, the bigger area at the indent of the house as it makes the turn to the side... pulled that landscaping cloth out and moved a bush and got mulch there. I cleaned out the middle-of-the-yard island where my 3 palm trees are. Sunny gave me about 7 years ago a bucket of amaryllis bulbs. I couldn't understand how she could give so many up. Ha, now I know. They multiply like rabbits. We've thinned them out a couple times and need done again. They've recently bloomed and are just beautiful when that whole area is filled with orange. But, today I weeded and cut all the dead spent stalks and raked the ones that have dried and fallen off. Had a huge huge pile of stuff to pick up. That was a lot of work.

S2S again. I smelled like fresh mulch. Swept out the car and the garage. I'm pretty much done for the day. DH is still out pulling weeds in the yard.

DH's favorite clothes are his work shorts and white tshirts. Dress up is a polo shirt and jeans. 3rd favorite outfit is... nothing. No modesty at all. He does not do this when there's anyone around! :lol: