Nice Christmas... and even nicer sleeping in VERY late (even for me) today.
Then a bunch of errands --
[/] cleaners... which was waste of time, b/c they are closed. Need to get dh's jeans (which he hates) hemmed. Will drop off Monday.
[x] bank
[x] post office
[x] hardware store... for new toilet seat b/c dh broke ours last night... shaking my head...
[x] CVS
[x] home to help dh install toilet seat
[x] back to hardware store, b/c no matter what dh & I did, it seemed the pieces of the puzzle didn't fit together -- hinges didn't allow lid to stand up, an important factor to dh, as you might imagine -- hardware store boy, who as I remember was the smartest boy in his high school class, worked with it a minute, and then it was the lightbulb flashed over his head and he said, "Wait a minute! THIS is how it goes..."
[x] back home, toilet seat works perfectly
DH already has his clothes hanging & ready to pack for Monday. * shaking my head again *
Our Christmas was fine, although a little nerve-wracking for me, and I think my impatience and irritation w/dmom kinda rubbed off on her, and I feel bad about that, b/c I know she was in horrible pain yesterday. She had a Lidocaine patch on her back, had taken pain meds, and was doing something else to try to alleviate her back pain.
Arrived @ dmom's at a few minutes after 10:00, and I don't think she had made ANY start at all towards breakfast, except dbro's gf had made the fruit salad the night before. Maybe dmom had bacon in the oven. She was trying to do bacon & ham in the oven, as she had seen others do, but it was not a huge success. I mean, we ate all the bacon, but it was not as evenly cooked as we had hoped. I'm thinking this could be b/c at one time, she had three racks in the oven -- bacon, ham, biscuits.
She & I did sausage (on the stove) and scrambled eggs, and she forgot cinnamon rolls until we were ready to sit down at the table -- at almost 11:30! -- so I told her to just forget about it altogther, they were mainly for me, and I certainly didn't need them.
At 12:30, we said we HAD TO get busy opening our presents, b/c extended family would be arriving at 1:00.
While we all sit down to open presents, dmom goes to her bedroom and starts, at this point on Christmas Day, to divide all our money into envelopes and sign cards for each of us.
* shaking my head almost to the point of Linda Blair/Exorcist range *
Good grief. This could have been done a MONTH ago, I'm thinking...
We all opened our presents from each other while we waited on her.
Next year, I am going to HAVE TO do better about helping her Get Her Act Together, and I made a card to that effect and put it with my Christmas Countdown cards. Dec. 1, help her w/shopping; Dec. 10, help her w/house prep; Dec. 20, help her w/breakfast prep. However, the main problem this year was having breakfast and lunch in the same house, and we have vowed NEVER again for that to happen. Ddil says next year we can have Christmas afternoon in their new home.
However, after all this, she presented dgs w/his little battery-powered Corvette, and THAT was a HUGE hit. Thank goodness. He was able to go out and drive it around some, and he LOVED it. So glad for that. A little bit bittersweet, b/c y'all can imagine how much we felt my ddad's absence at that point... he would have sooo loved seeing dgs in that little red Corvette.
Well... extended family DID begin arriving before dmom had opened all of her presents, and the table was still covered w/breakfast, but I've told y'all about my wonderful family... daunts and cousins jumped right in there helping me, dbro, & dgf get that all cleaned up, and we had everything pretty much on schedule.
We were a little short of people... two dcousins have sick children, so out of our 30 folks, five were missing and dgs turned out to be the only one under 17, I guess. But all was well... no drama w/daunt & duncle... dgs FINALLY settled down to take a nap w/ddil... and he wasn't TOO upset w/the idea of leaving, since he was being promised a trip to his other Pawpaw and Grandma's house.
There was a little bickering and tension w/ddil & ds, but we talked to them again (on the phone) just as they left town to head North, and they sounded fine. DH said ddil apologized to him, saying she knew she had been kinda (not-w)itchy.
Sooo good to come home and take a nap, and then I even had time to journal a little and I'm beginning to get myself in the right frame of mind to start 2015. I'll be missing the "get started" week next week, but I'm planning ahead already.