I'm late to the village today (as usual, to be honest) but I had to check in and let y'all know I'm still hanging on to my new attitude.
DESPITE dh being a little grumpy and obtuse tonight in conversation.
Focusing on
— listening to my body (Haven't exercised yet but I do plan to. I did morning stretches and drank some water this morning.
— giving myself credit for every accomplishment
Today's ta-das:
Made 3 (!) "business" phone calls for dmom
Also talked to dbro for a long while on the phone
Discarded a bunch of old spices, one of the weekly tasks from the PPP planner
Started a load of laundry
— practicing gratitude every day I have noticed dh and myself laughing more it seems in the past few days, and I am also very thankful for a restful Sunday yesterday. ALSO -- DH DRIED HIS OWN SHOWER TODAY -- HUGE SIGN THAT HE IS FEELING BETTER!
So that has been my day today, so far.
-- I cancelled dmom's colonoscopy appt for next Monday. She has come around to the same thinking as dh, ds, dbro, and myself -- better to leave well enough alone. She has been doing sooo well the last six weeks. And as dbro and I agreed, she is one of those people that if anything CAN go wrong, seems like it does. She has not had problems with this procedure before, but she just wasn't too gung-ho about prepping for it again while everything is going so well.
-- Also made plans with her for her birthday celebration (+Christmas +Valentine's Day, LOL) which we will do next Tuesday. Her birthday is Wed., March 1, but the dgrands need to be in church that night; children are singing the following Sunday & ddil helps with their class. So she said Tuesday was fine. She asked if I would just make spaghetti and we could do it here at our house. That was really what I had hoped to do anyway, but I certainly hope my spaghetti doesn't put her back in the hospital! She said she felt fine about eating it, that she had eaten Ragu spaghetti sauce at home. She is really trying to cut out fast food and fried foods, and it seems to be making a big difference in how she feels.
-- I also told her if she was waiting on me (which she is) to go with her to get a phone, to just call me and I would meet her whenever she wants to go to Wmart. She wants to just get a simple phone, maybe Smart Talk? Whatever her neighbors use. They have much better service than she does. And she needs to go by V*rizon and cancel old service, I think.
-- She said she was also going to need to get me to start writing her checks for her. Most of her bills are auto-pay anyway, but she has a few that have to be done by her each month. Her tremor is just such that she doesn't like to try to write things like this anymore. I used to do this for my grandmother also, but my grandmother wanted me to take the bills and personally pay them. Dmom said I would not have to do that for her! Surely I can find time to do this every other week or so -- or she will bring them to me, for that matter. But if I took one of the grands with me to do this, it would provide some variety to my time with them, and dmom would LOVE it.
DH and I went out to eat tonight and we just got back a little while ago. I plan to do a couple loads of laundry.
Teacher group meets tomorrow.
Waving to ALL of you!!!
* EDITING TO ADD
— finished 2 loads of laundry plus one shirt washed alone
— tried on 10 pairs of pants, decluttered 2
— walked away the pounds 20 minutes