Kathryn, I can certainly understand why your dd realized your dgs your dgs was withdrawing too much. I am praying things begin to improve and he feels more "social."
"Spiraling" -- yep... after the day I've had today, I am certainly feeling on the verge of a BIG spiral. TRYING DESPERATELY not to let myself start spinning. I think I am better at this, but something like today just really put me on edge. Called ddil, cried... calmed down... called dmom... cried... calmed down... my goodness.
Called soon-to-be sister-in-law mainly to get her opinion on which tie to get dbil... told her what was going on... ALMOST cried -- but couldn't really get into MY concerns too much because SHE was in a fender-bender today. Thank goodness she was not hurt, and car is still drive-able... but she will need to get it into the shop soon. As she said, this was NOT on her plans for things to do today. Plus she had been to the driver's license place and had a big run-around with them. And as she said, she's been going to the same office for over 50 years.
Day was productive, however -- after the doctor, the bbq order, and the visit with daunt -- I went to the mall and got presents for dbil and dniece. Still at a loss for dnephew and dsoon-to-be sister-in-law. But I have to go back Thursday, and I have still not been to one of the main stores I want to check out before Christmas. Also ate at Chick-Fil-A, which always makes my day better. (Although it does tend to make me spend a lot of the rest of the day in the bathroom. Too spicy? Maybe some particular spice I am not good with? Very likely it is the frosted lemonade, but I love it ALL.)
I also sent the picture via text to dcousin and ds, with names of the children, which daunt quickly provided. She seemed very sure of who the 5 Depression-era children were. Well, pre-Depression. My grandfather was a baby, and he was born in 1920. He had two older siblings and 7 half-siblings, the youngest of whom is this aunt, born in 1940.
I bet my great-grandmother had "female" complaints, wouldn't you think...
Anyway --
Kathryn continues to amaze me with all her busy-busy-busy activities...
Good for you,
Rose, on getting to a "FINISHED" point in decorating. I was there some time ago. I love the lights and decorations on the tree, but some of this stuff just seems like clutter to me as I'm getting older. Dgrands apparently love it, so as long as they help set it all up, I'm good with it.
I will put stamps and address labels on cards tonight and mail them tomorrow. Then, except for a few last gifts, I'll be done.
(((HUGS))) and prayers for your surgeries to go well and recovery to be smooth!
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Harriet))) I feel ridiculous complaining about an ultrasound and even a slight possibility of biopsy when you are dealing with all that's on your plate! Just know that YOU are in my prayers also and that all these side effects pass quickly!
Blessed -- my family has always been amused when I have lost my voice also! LOL.
Cathy, I have never eaten mincemeat. It sounds like it would be good, but does your version actually have meat in it? Apparently some does not, and is mostly dried fruit and nuts?
Blessed, I have never been on a sailboat either. Spent a lot of time during my childhood on a ski boat/cabin-cruiser, but never a sailboat. (Oh -- I wasn't the one skiing, that's for sure! My dad was the one skiing. My mom could ski, in her younger days, but she was a little more hesitant in the water than ddad.)
(((HUGS))) and prayers for you and your dmom, and other family members involved with her care. I know it has to be extremely stressful, even though you are always basically a poster child for optimism and good attitude.
Nancy, I will be working on my 2025 calendar soon... not letting myself have my new planner until Christmas, but I will fill out the kitchen wall calendar and purse calendar, probably as soon as I get those cards in the mail. Calendars will be my next project.
I think I dreamed I was teaching school again. Always recurring dreams -- this time the one where I realize I've been working for a while and never got my name on payroll, I've just been substituting for free. The other recurring dream is where I am teaching, for a great period of time, and I realize I have never taken attendance. LOL...
Rose, do you have school dreams?
LadyM -- what a motivational thought for ME -- GO ON FACTS, NOT FEELINGS!!!
Seriously, I need to write that down. It would work for the present health concern, and also for my lazy mornings.
BTW -- I am allowing myself 9 minutes online before I get out of bed. When the snooze alarm goes off, my feet HAVE TO hit the floor.
Twins, looks like you are doing great! I'm sorry for the family and friends of the man whose funeral you spoke of, but it certainly sounds like a life well-lived.
We're having a lot of rain also. And very warm temperatures -- looks like the high tomorrow is supposed to be 67. I love it. Anytime I don't have to wear a heavy coat, the temperature is good in my opinion.
Thank you all for checking out the J&C worry I got today, and thank you for your prayers. I really think it is nothing, but gosh I hate to go through this to find out. And if it IS something... well, whatever it is, finding out NOW is better than finding out LATER, that's for certain.