Thank you for giving me permission to be lazy,
blessed!
I saw something you posted in another thread, and it was so good I thought I would share it here, too,
blessed. I hope you don't mind! Right now, my dh is in a very good mood, and usually we do balance each other out pretty well. When one of us is stressed out or in the depths of despair, usually the other can give needed perspective -- but sometimes, it is just as you said:
You can say yes it can be frustrating but if he is in a mood you can't change it. There is no arguing when someone wants to be in a mood or complains. All you can do is to release some of his energy from you and know that it is his to work out. Give yourself a really nice day!
I think most of us need to remember that from time to time. Thank you for stating it so well. You are very wise.
Let's see...
This is the On My Mind stuff that REALLY needs to be done before Jan. 1:
[ ] grade papers
[ ] record grades in gradebook
[ ] post grades in computer
[ ] set up gradebook for new semester * That could really wait until school workday on Jan. 2, no rush for this one.
[ ] color hair w/new color * Navajo Bronze, I believe, is what I have settled on. It was recommended by the C lairol lady.
-- but first must do
[ ] skin test, wait 48 hours
[ ] strand test
-- so at best, cannot color hair until Monday!
[ ] catch up on 3 weeks of ironing. * Yes. 3 Weeks. I did not think ironing lady was going to quit on me.
[ ] watch
Paint Your Wagon on dvd while catching up on ironing.
[ ] download pictures to computer and to S napfish for developing
[ ] order book for dh * another make-up Christmas gift he couldn't find before Christmas
[ ] put pictures in new picture frame & hang
I made this list out Thursday, and so far I
have been able to check off a few items:
* reconciled checkbook
* went w/dh to get SUV from dealer & took to dcousin
* used gift card to purchase picture frame w/four spaces
(I think I'm going to put dgs pics in it -- birth/2/4/6 months pictures, and then update periodically)
* swapped pants that dh got me for Christmas
* also ordered myself a little post-Christmas gift book: 52 Little Lessons from It's a Wonderful Life.

It's on backorder right now, but that's okay. I'll love it whenever it arrives. I love Jimmy Stewart, and that is one of my very, very favorite movies!
I think I absolutely MUST go s2s. That is truly the key to my day. I MUST remember this when I retire. I should BURN all my housecoats!!!