Oh, (((
Kathryn)))... I am so sorry about your dfriend's grandchild... so tragic... I understand your dd's paranoia re: SIDS, too, b/c it is just terrifying to think about... and as y'all know, I tend to THINK about all sorts of things waaay too much, so I've had that fear, too. So glad you caught that episode w/your ds, RR!!! I don't blame you for changing doctors!
What is (was) feasible today?
Hmmm... well, after dmom woke me up before my wake-up time yesterday, to talk about taking the truck to the shop... well, I thought surely I would not be awakened early today. But no... TODAY she called to tell me she had gotten locked out of her house (b/c she went out to walk, a good thing!) and she was calling to tell me if she did not call back in an hour, I should come check on her. She was going to try to go through a window. I am just shaking my head... and I told her she better get her neighbor to come help her because she was going to break a hip or something, and maybe she just call the locksmith and WAIT. But no... she called back in about 30 minutes and said she was in the house, all was well, neighbor did help.

Good grief.
I went back to bed and slept till noon, too, Cathy!
Yesterday, ds and I did take her truck to the body shop and they should have it out by the end of next week. It's pretty expensive, and ds said he would much rather have the $2000 than for Granny to be putting it in a truck for his benefit, LOL... but Granny is determined that she will NOT give him a truck with a big dent and yellow paint streaks on the side.
After we dropped off her truck, then I had to take him to her house to get his. I looked at her kitchen table and I told her, it looked like I had never been there at all. * sigh *
I helped her write some more checks, opened a bunch of mail that just needed to go in the "to file" stack, and put the newspapers on the coffee table, (some still in the plastic wrap, dated back to July 2).
I mean it is ridiculous... it just drives me totally insane, but I think I do need to go out there once a week and try to keep her on track.
Plus, get this... she has TOLD me (several times, now) that she gave my brother a sizable check, and she is going to give me one. Almost everytime I am out there, she mentions this... but she cannot focus on any activity long enough to actually write the check.
Yesterday, she had a large check to write to M.D. Anderson, and I said, do you want me to sign it? (My name is on the bank records for this account, but not on the actual check itself, yet). She said, "No, I'll sign it... and I need to write you that check..." but by the time she found her reading glasses and got that done, she forgot all about it.
I wrote another check for $48 to myself, but had her sign it -- this was to repay me for purchasing her birthday gift for dgs -- and when she did that, she said, "Do you need my signature on anything else?"
LOL... I just said I didn't think so.
I could live without the gift check... but I do bristle a little, y'all know, when I think "baby brother" is getting treated better than me... AND I hate this constant reminder of it. Good grief.
DS said next time I have to pay myself back for a grocery run or something, I should just make the check out of the promised amount, PLUS the groceries. LOL.
UPDATE RE: DS/etc.
Go ahead... start the chorus of "I told you so's." -- And I feel I should apologize for coming in here earlier this week all in a panic and then not letting y'all know what was going on. You probably thought we were in an all-out war about it all... * sigh *
As it turned out, ds and ddil decided not to go the festival either, and ds said it had nothing to do with us -- he never mentioned to her that we might want to go at all -- they just decided not to go, b/c they already have committments tomorrow and Sunday, and decided it would be too much trouble.
And when I finally DID mention it to dh, he said, "Yeah, I knew (Friend) was going to be there? (DS) isn't going, is he?"

at myself...
And... a little bit of

at ddil... Do any of you, or your children, have this ear piercing thing that is a sort of bar that goes diagonally from the top of the lobe to sorta halfway to the bottom of the lobe?
Well... ddil does now. It's a little "out there" to say the least, for dh's taste. (We've seen a picture). DS is not wild about it, either, but he said it wasn't permanent, she could always take it out if she wanted to, and her hair will cover it up when she wants it covered. My goodness. That was what she wanted for her birthday. (Her birthday is Monday.) Have to keep remembering she is only 22. * sigh *
If some of y'all DO have unusual piercings, etc... PLEASE do not take offense!!! Just keep in mind the little conservative Southern town I live in and the very conservative family I come from... and that Sunday should be ddil's first Sunday in the choir... where, as she said, everyone is thirty years older than her. * sigh * To each her own, I guess.
Today's Feasible TA-DA's...
* talked to dmom twice
* walked 2 miles
* s2s
* played w/dgs a little while
* called place about an auto-delivery thing dh gets that is duplicating its order now
* wrote checks for two bills
* errands (mostly to pay bills)
-- insurance office
-- post office
-- florist
-- drug store
-- supper
I would love to see the pictures w/the professional stager's touches,
Cathy! I have never known anyone around here who used one, but I suspect realators do something of that sort when they can.
OH -- a belated happy birthday to
Mr. MT!!! He shares a birthday w/my late maternal dgmother. She would have been 99 yesterday!
FF -- so sweet to write to dgs... he will treasure that card forever!
Waving to all!!!