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Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 12:22 am
by trissie
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Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 12:28 am
by trissie
Marilyn Monroe (born June 1, 1926, Los Angeles, California, U.S.—found dead August 5, 1962, Los Angeles) was an American actress who became a major sex symbol, starring in a number of commercially successful films during the 1950s. These included Gentlemen Prefer Blondes (1953) and Some Like It Hot (1959). Behind the scenes, however, Monroe struggled to find happiness, and in 1962 she died from a drug overdose. She later became a pop culture icon.

Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 1:32 am
by Gma
Thanks for starting the day, trissie, I marvel at your creativity in finding themes for the week!

Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 1:59 am
by Kittykatt
Good morning Trissie and thank you for starting us off, and for another weekly topic! I always think MM had such a sad life, despite her success.

Gma, I hope you're able to see.the vet today with DDog. I don't know very much about dogs, (Dogged is our resident dog expert! :D ) but the symptoms you describe do sound concerning, and enough to warrant an "urgent same day appointment". I wonder if they're connected with her dental issues, and something has suddenly deteriorated in her mouth? Broken / infected / abcessed teeth can make us feel very unwell, so I'm guessing it's the same in dogs, and could definitely explain why she's such a fussy eater generally. How does her breath smell? If it's unpleasant, then that's another indication. I think you said she was 12? That is definitely a "senior" but small dogs (iirc she's a Pekinese?) often live for a very long time, well into their teens.

Helian, I hope you were able to sleep well, and feel more refreshed and less overwhelmed today.

So, Monday once more! It's cloudy today, so no sunrise for me. I didn't sleep well last night -, there's a lot OMM ATM ( most of which, in the cold light of day is actually relatively insignificant, or has a reasonably straightforward solution), Matilda decided she was very "needy" overnight, and then DH was crashing about at 0 dark thirty. :roll: Never mind, these things happen, one short night won't hurt, and I'll go to bed early tonight. I also need to break some tasks into small steps, so I feel I'm making progress.

Today is also the one day this week when I should be uninterrupted, so I need to make the most of it and be as productive as possible, and avoid too many distractions! :D

Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 2:06 am
by Kittykatt
To do:

Appointments:
Monday: DH to office
At home for me
Tuesday: DH WFH
At home for me
Wednesday: DH to office
At home for me
Butcher delivery of Easter meat pack
8 am Openreach engineers are supposed to arrive to finally sort out Dnextdoorneighbour C's fibre internet - have they agreed the route they are going not follow? Will they need to use our path to work from?
Laxapet for Jude and Matilda
9 pm Final touches to Waitrose order
Thursday: DH WFH
10.30 am church
Any errands?
Hoover car? ( Weather permitting!)
Bring blue crates up from garage (delegate this to DH)
6-7 pm Waitrose delivery
Laxapet -Jude and Matilda ( if we didn't do it yesterday)
Good Friday: DH off work
At home for me
Saturday:
*Text DF E re coffee tomorrow*
Sunday: church 9.30 am
Coffee with DF E ?
Laxapet Jude and Matilda

Future dates to note:

Outstanding deliveries:

Extras:
Find those new trainers I have stashed away
Throw out my old trainers (they are falling to bits, so can't be donated)
Order Fred's meds and new food (see MF's email for this!), and Matilda's Laxapet from vet - by TUESDAY
Digital decluttering- Google Photos for 2024 and 2025
Write upcoming appointments on kitchen calendar and in my filofax
Easter card for DF E
Chocolate Easter bunny for DF E
Email Hobbies re my dolls house
Pick up my footprints! (Thank you, RRose!) 😀
Make list of outstanding jobs on the house and send to Handyman A. DF PM, who has been mentoring him through some difficult turns his life has taken, thinks he may be ready to start some jobs again. (If he doesn't reply in a reasonable time, or doesn't want to do anything, then I'll look for someone else, but I would prefer not to do that). Off the top of my head, clean gutters and the swan neck on the downpipes where "stuff" tends to accumulate, clean cladding back and front and downpipes, and short return wall as well. Replace the bit of mortar that's fallen out of the edge of the roof (I think its called the verge?) , fix dripping kitchen tap ( new washer?), sort out cabinet that wobbles, fix garage guttering that's loose at one end and bending down. More as I think of them? 😀 ( Texted 10/3 and still waiting for a reply over a month later :roll: ) Update: text him again first thing Monday, and if no reply by the end of the month, then definitely look for someone else (DF PM is also starting to become exasperated with his reluctance)
Steps to take to find a replacement: ask friends, look on local sources eg Nextdoor for recommendations
I may have to split the jobs between different people this year if I can't find someone who's good at a variety of skills
For gutter cleaning, Dneighbours R and A used Ben's gutters -are they pleased with the work? Does BG also clean cladding? Do they have a website?
Kitchen tap - DF E has given me the phone number if her plumber . I think DF CW also has a plumber she is happy with?
Garage gutter - probably a handyman needed here - Text /message a few likely candidates and see what happens. Does Dneighbour R2 do handyman type jobs? I know he's done work for Dneighbour R in the past, but that was larger jobs, like laying a path!
I need to find a new podiatrist - I don't know anyone who regularly uses one, so I need to do my homework:
Look online - are they taking on new clients? ( Many people aren't ATM as there is a shortage :roll: no) Are they registered with the HCPC? Check their registration numbers to ensure they match! ( This should ensure I see someone who is properly qualified and adheres to straight levels of hygiene) Do I like the "feel" of the place from the website? Is it easy to get to? (Somewhere miles out with no parking nearby is not going to be suitable). Find a date and time that's suitable and book an appointment!
Take up and hem those thick winter curtains for the kitchen
Book eye test for me
Find picture hanging equipment for DH
Sort prints and put in albums (this will probably be an activity to do on wet days!) WIP I am now working on 2024
Think about setting up Guardianship for F,J and M - looked on Cats' Protection, I need their microchip numbers, approximate DOB, colour and markings and useful information about them. Bookmark link with local recommended solicitors (also ask DF CW?)
Change health centres to the one nearest us? On hold ATM , but I'll leave it on my list so I don't forget.

To do:
Early morning:
Cuddles and treats on the bed with Matilda,😀Jude😀, and Freddie😀
Cup of tea😀
QT😀
Update latest Waitrose order when new dates become available😀
Make bed
Shower / wash hair/ moisturiser and sunblock/ clean and floss teeth
Physio exercises and back exercises
Proprioceptors exercises X1 x2 x3
S/S bathroom
Get dressed
DH launched
Breakfast and meds / supplements - me
DRINK WATER #1 #2 #3 #4 #5 #6 #7 #8
Check bank account
Go for my walk - take several shorter walks today instead of one longer one, to get used to my new trainers

Garden:
15 minutes in tiny front garden
15 minutes in back garden

Cats:
Cats’ breakfast and meds / supplements
Fresh water in cat bowls
Scoop cat trays
Check Jude’s bowl
Check Matilda's bowl
Walk Freddie
Lap time with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Play with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Head rubs with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Cats' supper

House:
Rubbish down to wheelie bins
Kitchen clean up
Load DW
Run DW when full
Unload DW
PUPA downstairs
Quick dust sitting room
Quick hoover downstairs
PUPA upstairs
Quick dust bedrooms
Quick hoover upstairs
Lunch
Supper
Lay out clothes for tomorrow
Journal three things I am thankful for today
Hand cream

Extra house tasks:

Monday:
Clean bathroom
Clean spare room
Clean bedroom

Tuesday:
Clean hall
Clean sitting room
Clean stairs
Empty hoover before starting work
Wheelie bins back when dustmen have been
Filing paperwork for 15 minutes

Wednesday:
Clean kitchen

Garden extras:
Feed pots weekly
8 weeks time - need to order more fuchsia gall mite predator
Late April/May: buy geraniums and begonias for pots and small border
Decide how many I need:
Begonias - shallow pot on manhole cover in front garden, also some for shallow bowl on patio?
Geraniums - 12 along fence by path?
6? along remainder of fence
8-10 for small border?
6? for patio ?

Financial:
More work on budget WIP
Healthspan
Change CTax SO again in May!

Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 5:42 am
by Kittykatt
Progress!

To do:

Appointments:
Monday: DH to office 😀
At home for me
Tuesday: DH WFH
At home for me
Wednesday: DH to office
At home for me
Butcher delivery of Easter meat pack
8 am Openreach engineers are supposed to arrive to finally sort out Dnextdoorneighbour C's fibre internet - have they agreed the route they are going to follow? Will they need to use our path to work from?
Laxapet for Jude and Matilda
9 pm Final touches to Waitrose order
Thursday: DH WFH
10.30 am church
Any errands?
Hoover car? ( Weather permitting!)
Bring blue crates up from garage (delegate this to DH)
6-7 pm Waitrose delivery
Laxapet -Jude and Matilda ( if we didn't do it yesterday)
Good Friday: DH off work
At home for me
Saturday:
*Text DF E re coffee tomorrow*
Sunday: church 9.30 am
Coffee with DF E ?
Laxapet Jude and Matilda

Future dates to note:

Outstanding deliveries:

Extras:
Find those new trainers I have stashed away😀
Throw out my old trainers (they are falling to bits, so can't be donated)😀
Donate trainers that are reasonably new, but, for some reason no longer fit my feet :roll: 😀
Order Fred's meds and new food (see MF's email for this!), and Matilda's Laxapet from vet - by TUESDAY
Digital decluttering- Google Photos for 2024 and 2025
Write upcoming appointments on kitchen calendar and in my filofax
Easter card for DF E
Chocolate Easter bunny for DF E
Email Hobbies re my dolls house
Pick up my footprints! (Thank you, RRose!) 😀
Make list of outstanding jobs on the house and send to Handyman A. DF PM, who has been mentoring him through some difficult turns his life has taken, thinks he may be ready to start some jobs again. (If he doesn't reply in a reasonable time, or doesn't want to do anything, then I'll look for someone else, but I would prefer not to do that). Off the top of my head, clean gutters and the swan neck on the downpipes where "stuff" tends to accumulate, clean cladding back and front and downpipes, and short return wall as well. Replace the bit of mortar that's fallen out of the edge of the roof (I think its called the verge?) , fix dripping kitchen tap ( new washer?), sort out cabinet that wobbles, fix garage guttering that's loose at one end and bending down. More as I think of them? 😀 ( Texted 10/3 and still waiting for a reply over a month later :roll: )
Update: text him again first thing Monday😀
If no reply by the end of the month, then definitely look for someone else (DF PM is also starting to become exasperated with his reluctance)
Steps to take to find a replacement: ask friends, look on local sources eg Nextdoor for recommendations
I may have to split the jobs between different people this year if I can't find someone who's good at a variety of skills
For gutter cleaning, Dneighbours R and A used Ben's gutters -are they pleased with the work? Does BG also clean cladding? Do they have a website? Yes 😀
Also The E Gutter Cleaners -they have good reviews😀
Prepare my "job spec" WIP
Fill in free quote forms for both the above companies
Wait and see the results!
Kitchen tap - DF E has given me the phone number if her plumber . I think DF CW also has a plumber she is happy with?
Garage gutter - probably a handyman needed here - Text /message a few likely candidates and see what happens. Does Dneighbour R2 do handyman type jobs? I know he's done work for Dneighbour R in the past, but that was larger jobs, like laying a path!
I need to find a new podiatrist - I don't know anyone who regularly uses one, so I need to do my homework:
Look online - are they taking on new clients? ( Many people aren't ATM as there is a shortage :roll: no) Are they registered with the HCPC? Check their registration numbers to ensure they match! ( This should ensure I see someone who is properly qualified and adheres to straight levels of hygiene) Do I like the "feel" of the place from the website? Is it easy to get to? (Somewhere miles out with no parking nearby is not going to be suitable). The Foot Clinic is looking promising, the only downside is they are a bit pricey. I guess you get what you pay for! Find a date and time that's suitable and book an appointment!
Take up and hem those thick winter curtains for the kitchen
Book eye test for me
Find picture hanging equipment for DH
Sort prints and put in albums (this will probably be an activity to do on wet days!) WIP I am now working on 2024
Think about setting up Guardianship for F,J and M - looked on Cats' Protection, I need their microchip numbers, approximate DOB, colour and markings and useful information about them. Bookmark link with local recommended solicitors (also ask DF CW?)
Change health centres to the one nearest us? On hold ATM , but I'll leave it on my list so I don't forget.

To do:
Early morning:
Cuddles and treats on the bed with Matilda,😀Jude😀, and Freddie😀
Cup of tea😀
QT😀
Update latest Waitrose order when new dates become available😀
Make bed😀
Shower / wash hair/ moisturiser and sunblock/ clean and floss teeth😀
Physio exercises and back exercises😀
Proprioceptors exercises X1😀 x2 x3
S/S bathroom😀
Get dressed😀
DH launched 😀
Breakfast and meds / supplements - me
DRINK WATER #1 #2 #3 #4 #5 #6 #7 #8
Check bank account
Go for my walk - take several shorter walks today instead of one longer one, to get used to my new trainers

Garden:
15 minutes in tiny front garden
15 minutes in back garden

Cats:
Cats’ breakfast and meds / supplements😀
Fresh water in cat bowls
Scoop cat trays😀
Check Jude’s bowl
Check Matilda's bowl
Walk Freddie
Lap time with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Play with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Head rubs with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Cats' supper

House:
Rubbish down to wheelie bins
Kitchen clean up
Load DW
Run DW when full
Unload DW
PUPA downstairs
Quick dust sitting room
Quick hoover downstairs
PUPA upstairs
Quick dust bedrooms
Quick hoover upstairs
Lunch
Supper
Lay out clothes for tomorrow
Journal three things I am thankful for today
Hand cream

Extra house tasks:

Monday:
Clean bathroom
Clean spare room
Clean bedroom

Tuesday:
Clean hall
Clean sitting room
Clean stairs
Empty hoover before starting work
Wheelie bins back when dustmen have been
Filing paperwork for 15 minutes

Wednesday:
Clean kitchen

Garden extras:
Feed pots weekly
8 weeks time - need to order more fuchsia gall mite predator
Late April/May: buy geraniums and begonias for pots and small border
Decide how many I need:
Begonias - shallow pot on manhole cover in front garden, also some for shallow bowl on patio?
Geraniums - 12 along fence by path?
6? along remainder of fence
8-10 for small border?
6? for patio ?

Financial:
More work on budget WIP
Healthspan
Change CTax SO again in May!
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Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 6:37 am
by L.Ann
Morning Trissie. I think it is hard to find a handyman who is good at fixing all sorts of issues, kittykatt. Today is going to be a day of lots of little errands plus grocery shopping.

1-dress and pick up bedroom
2-meds and temp for DD32
3-walk a mile

4-pick up Little Bit/breakfast for her
5-exercise video

Menus
Monday-Southern spiced chicken Thighs
Tuesday-DD32 out/me left overs
Wednesday-seared salmon with scallion rice and carrots
Thursday-sweet chili shrimp with mushrooms, carrots and rice
Friday-eat out
Saturday-seared chicken with orzo, zucchini and parmesan

Events
Monday-Little Bit 7:40-3:20, dentist me@3:20, groceries, pick up my library holds, take antibiotics@2:20
Tuesday-Little Bit 7:40-5, fasting labs for DD32, 3-8 PS for DD32, library story time@10:30
Wednesday-Little Bit 7:40-5, lunch out with friends @11:30, pick up a few veggies and herbs for raised bed
Thursday-Little Bit 7:40-4(early drop off), DD32 stays late for Easter celebration, dermatologist for me@5, see DM
Friday-Hopkins 11:00

Weekly House Blessing-mop kitchen, dining room, bathroom
Detailed Cleaning spare room-scrub bathroom floor, polish furniture, wipe down woodwork(1/2 done)
Extra Stuff- work on last Shutterfly book, call carpet guy

Accomplishments
-knee and stretching exercises
-breakfast for dog and me
-diet site

Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 8:24 am
by helia
I hope you actually get your uninterrupted day, Kitty. Perhaps you'll get outside for a walk or to work in your garden.
Good luck with all your errands, L Ann.
Sounds like you had a busy Sunday like I did, Gma. I hope the student responds today.
Thanks for another interesting start, trissie!

Thinking of decaf this morning. Has she appeared at our new site?

Yesterday was SOOO scheduled and busy. I didn't make a fraction of the progress I'd wanted to; exam prep grew into a big ugly monster, and I spent an inordinate amount of time on it. But the first drafts are all done. One has been revised, and one has been OK-ed. I did run a 5K race moderately well, attended CG2, had dinner at our place with the Cs, M, and the girls, and zoomed with ds+F in the evening.

Today, I hope to finish everything that's been on my lists for the past few days. :shock: Plus, I have A LOT OF payroll to do today: prep and teach, instructor meeting 1-1:40, make sub plans, review my final exam, create image and email out exit test results. Class Prep will take longer bc I'll be making some review materials. The exam is on Wednesday.

Main Goals for Today:
1. payroll: Review my final exam
2. Payroll: Prep for AAS D12
3. Payroll: meeting 1 - 1:40
4. Payroll: teach AAS D12 1:40 - 3:30
5. Payroll: make sub plans
6. Finish filling out paperwork for Mom, scan it, and email it to NH
7. GAS the car; it's almost on empty

Other Possible goals
- get a few groceries
- get a few items for Mom - pillows and some toiletries
- buy thank you cards
- bring floor lamps + odds and ends to NH; the lamps arrived yesterday after dh and I had gone to the NH

Next:
- payroll: review final exam
- payroll: prep AAS D12
- payroll: grade HW6
- payroll: email exit exam results

Later:
- finish Mom's paperwork
- scan and email Mom's paperwork
- back exercises
- s2s and self care
- squeegee and wipe down shower
- reclaim kitchen
- make the bed
- lunch at some point
- WF run? / Kroger run?
- get some thing
- move counseling appt. on Thursday
- order bowls
- call medlink to touch base
- lunch
- spiff self and otd by 12:30
- find parking in parking garage
- 1 - 1:40 payroll: instructor meeting
- 1:40 - 3:30 payroll: teach AAS D12
- payroll: make sub plans
- bring items to NH?
- buy thank you cards + 1 small thank you gift
- dinner on my own - simple
- after dinner clean up
- start packing for tomorrow
- duo
- update WW + MFP

TaDas!
- up; weighed self - down
- coffee
- some qt
- email deletions + weather website

WEEKLY ACTIVITIES
Mon 1-1:40 payroll: instructor Meeting/ 1:40 - 3:30 payroll: teach AAS D12/ Payroll: Sub plans ready/ DH is out for dinner
Tue DRIVE to Illinois/ Meet with CV - walk or dinner or coffee?
Wed Visit Mom/ Pack up Mom's stuff/ stop by the house/ Dinner: with dbro
Thur MOM MOVES TO MI/ meet her at new nursing home here (I hope) @ ___and unpack her clothes/ 7:30 Titanic UM performance - maybe
Fri Visit Mom/ go to payroll early - grade final exams/ 1:30 - 3:30 payroll: teach AAS D14/ 7 Good Friday Service (out 6:30 - 9-ish)
Sat 8 - 5K run? / Visit Mom/ 5:30 - ? CG1
Sun out 10 - 1-ish Church/ Visit Mom/ 6-ish Host Easter Dinner for 11 people

Mon REST

March Brain Dumps
This Week - House
- clean sheets on the bed
- clean fridge
- get 2 guest beds remade with clean sheets
- polish kitchen appliances
- possibly, polish stone counter tops
- repot my little orchid

This Week - Deskwork
- eventually, email L and L
- order bowls
- move counseling appt.

General Brain Dump
- book bnbs for July vacation - wip
- progress decluttering clothes - wip
- new phone eventually
- buy queen bed frame + mattress + box springs for dd26's room - wip

Moving Mom - April 17, 2025
- call Medlink re: Mom's transportation - food and drink for her
- send letters to Mom's friends who do send her cards re: the move
- get everything on the supply list - wip
- set up Mom's room - wip
- thank yous for NH nurses and Q, the social worker

Brain Dump - Mom and Trust
- get fire safe box for Mom's documents
- email church about the tools in Dad's workshop; Dad would have loved for the church workshop to have them

Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 8:37 am
by Kittykatt
Good morning, L.Ann and Helian!

L.Ann, I hope your errands go smoothly. I think you're right re the handyman issue. J was wonderful, and could turn his hand to anything, but unfortunately has retired. :( A was great last year and the year before, and very enthusiastic, but now he seems to have decided he doesn't want to do anything any more. :roll: ( It's not just me, he's ignoring all his other customers as well. I know he's had a difficult time, as his GF threw him out last September, and I've tried to be understanding, as have all his other customers, but it's over 6 months now...) I feel I need to give him a chance before I move on, hence the gentle reminder today, but these jobs can't wait for ever - some of them have been waiting since last summer. :roll: So that's why I'm starting to look at more specialist companies for the important things. Most of these have a form to fill in online, so I've bookmarked their websites. I'm leaving contacting anyone else until after Easter, to give A a chance to reply. ATM, I think I'd be happy for anyone competent to just turn up!

Helian, you do sound very busy, and with a very scheduled day, but, hopefully things will be easier for you once your DMum has been safely moved to the new NH.

I got sidetracked, but in a good way, sorting G out the storage baskets on top of my wardrobe. I've found some more donations, and have walked the bag over to the charity bank as part of my walk. Next is some garden time. It's chilly today, but ok if you keep moving. :D

Re: Marilyn Monroe's Monday @ TDD - C&C

Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2025 8:54 am
by L.Ann
Next up…. Errands….

1-library pick up, post office drop off
2-donation drop off, recycling to dump
3-pick up coffee, get groceries

Menus
Monday-Southern spiced chicken Thighs
Tuesday-DD32 out/me left overs
Wednesday-seared salmon with scallion rice and carrots
Thursday-sweet chili shrimp with mushrooms, carrots and rice
Friday-eat out
Saturday-seared chicken with orzo, zucchini and parmesan

Events
Monday-Little Bit 7:40-3:20, dentist me@3:20, groceries, pick up my library holds, take antibiotics@2:20
Tuesday-Little Bit 7:40-5, fasting labs for DD32, 3-8 PS for DD32, library story time@10:30
Wednesday-Little Bit 7:40-5, lunch out with friends @11:30, pick up a few veggies and herbs for raised bed
Thursday-Little Bit 7:40-4(early drop off), DD32 stays late for Easter celebration, dermatologist for me@5, see DM
Friday-Hopkins 11:00

Weekly House Blessing-mop kitchen, dining room, bathroom
Detailed Cleaning spare room-scrub bathroom floor, polish furniture, wipe down woodwork(1/2 done)
Extra Stuff- work on last Shutterfly book, call carpet guy

Accomplishments
-knee and stretching exercises
-breakfast for dog and me
-diet site
-dress and pick up bedroom
-meds and temp for DD32
-walk a mile
-pick up Little Bit/breakfast for her
-exercise video
-repaired Little Bit’s gnome that her puppy got ahold of