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Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 1:55 am
by Kittykatt
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Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 1:56 am
by Kittykatt
Seven-layer salad is an American dish that includes a colourful combination of seven layers of ingredients: iceberg lettuce, tomatoes, cucumbers, onions, sweet peas, hard-boiled eggs, sharp cheddar cheese, and bacon pieces.The salad is topped with a mayonnaise-based dressing and sometimes sour cream is added. It is often served in a glass bowl or large pan so the layers can be observed. The dish is often associated with potlucks, picnics, and barbecues, where a large gathering of people takes place and many people need to be fed. There are many variants of the seven-layer salad and it can be made with additional (or sometimes fewer) layers, making it (for example) an eight-layer salad instead.

Although there are many variations, the traditional seven-layer salad has remained the same for decades. The dish may have originated in the South and was called the "seven-layer pea salad" for its main layers of peas.

Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 2:17 am
by Gma
(copied from previous day. i was posting there at Kittykatt started Saturday

Helian, hugs to you, sending courage, resilience for you as you advocate for your mother! She may have ahd this UtI for a long time. Classic UTI symptom in elderly is confusion. I'm happy to hear she is so much more alert. HYDRATION is also so incredibly important.
When I was in grad school, we read a study done by someone working on a geriatric nurse practitioner degree. Her project was to pay special attention to hydration to one side of the NH hall, and do ordinary care on the other side. The project was STOPPED early, and adding attention to hydration throughout the facility was started because the DEATH rate (which was not the intended outcome to measure in the study) on the ordinary care side was noticably higher than the hydrated side of the hall. Yeah, it may have been a coincidence, but .... everyone started to improve when hydration was a focus.

I've been kind of MIA past few days, focusing so much on care for dlittledog. She's still hanging in there. Not eating much, but eating at least a little. I am counting seconds of potty, and listening and counting laps from her water dish, when she does stand to drink. She doesn't seem to be in pain, and tonight she was quite alert, which cheered mother. Every night I pray that she will make it and still be with us in the morning. This started on Palm Sunday, so I've be en dealing with it for quite a while. Balancing care for the dog, emotional support for mother, taking dog to see her Mommy, managing with my crutches, and getting someone to clean after tenant moved out, and finding new tenant for Mother's basement apartment, who may move in tomorrow. And there's no mattress, so that will have to be purchased ASAP if tenant wants to move in immediately. It just feels like there's too much going on! But that seems to be almost always the case for me.
Which reminds me, I think I wrote out the check for mother's NH, but I don't think I put it in the payment box, and I can't remember where I might have put it....
Bedtime, I need to get up in the morning to meet tenant.

Sweet news about dgrandson: He has been chosen to be an LA next school year at University. An LA is a Learning Assistant, elsewhere called a Teaching Assistant, to supervise intro students in their Civil Engineering lab, and be a resource to help them learn. He just finisned his freshman year.

Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 3:54 am
by Kittykatt
Congratulations to your DGS, Gma! Sleep well! You certainly need your rest with all that's going on in your life ATM. I don't know if it's any help when calculating Tutsi's fluid intake, but the average volume of one cat lap when drinking is 0.1 ml. (I don't know if dogs drink differently from cats? Do dogs "gulp" more?)

FFB, IMHO, cucumber sandwiches are nicest with the addition of cream cheese, but that's not the "traditional" way. :lol: I looked up the traditions of our street parties. When WW1 ended, "Peace Parties" were often held in the streets. These were, culinarily speaking, very simple (probably because food was very short) and would comprise, slices of bread and butter (in all probability this was actually bread and margarine!), slices of fruit cake and cups of tea. If any gentlemen were present, they would have been catered for by a brown jug, containing beer, from the local pub. I think the main idea here was to gather together for a social time to celebrate the peace, while of course, remembering all those who wouldn't be coming home.

Helian, that's a lot of responsibility for your DMum, but good she is more alert.

L.Ann, so glad you're pleased with your new carpet.

Laura, I hope the assessment for DS was helpful.

I never made it back yesterday, I went off list and cut Matilda's nails, have her a good brush and her flea control. I did the same for Fred, except I just cut his dew claws (his left one in particular grows long and pointed and if not attended to may start to grow into his paw) and decided to leave the rest for the vet to deal with at the end of the month. He also had a very good brush, accompanied by growling, :shock: and his flea control. He doesn't keep himself as nice as the Girls - I don't know if he finds grooming himself painful, or whether he's lazy, or whether it's because he's a boy. Something else to discuss with the vet in the 27th.

I also managed to persuade Dneighbour R (who does lots of building and gardening jobs) that he would like to fix the bracket on our garage gutter. I've tried, and failed. I can clean it easily myself, as it's only single storey, but I can't get the screws to go in on this one bracket, and my go-to of gorilla glue and tape aren't doing the job. :oops: I'll pay him, of course, even though he said no, as apparently in it's just a "quick" job. Not sure when he'll do it, as he's busy and it's not urgent, but at least I'm making progress on my list.

I didn't complete any admin jobs (although I did proof read and amend) so that's moved to today , but I did have a very productive and successful time in my garden and made the most of the beautiful weather.

Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 4:28 am
by Kittykatt
To do:
Cuddles and treats with Matilda, 😀 Freddie 😀 and Jude 😀
QT😀
Update latest Waitrose order 😀
Cup of tea
Get up!
Shower/wash hair/moisturiser and sunblock/ clean and floss teeth
S/S bathroom
Physio exercises
Get dressed in casual clothes
Make bed
Scoop cat trays and give everyone fresh water
Cat breakfast and meds /supplements
Breakfast and meds /vitamins for me
Quick kitchen clean up
Load DW
Quick PUPA downstairs
Quick dust and Hoover downstairs
Wind clock
Quick PUPA upstairs
Quick dust bedrooms
15 minutes in tiny front garden
15 minutes in back garden
Go for my walk
Walk Freddie
Lap time with Freddie, Jude
and Matilda
Head rubs with Freddie, Jude and Matilda
Play with Freddie, Jude and Matilda
Run DW when full
Unload DW
Lunch
Cats' supper
Our supper
Sort out lunch for tomorrow
Bake something?
Text DF E re coffee tomorrow
First load of towels in machine
Towels hung up to dry
2nd load of towels in machine to wash overnight
Clothes laid out for tomorrow

Extras:
Jude -cut nails, brush, flea control, Laxapet
Matilda -Laxapet
Write review for Seasalt
Complete survey for BG
Email T
Email A
Find email address for CMA
List the points I wish to raise re their findings so far and interim recommendations - topics I want to comment on - Thank you for your words of encouragement, Helian and FFB! :D

1) The proposed increased use and expansion
of the role of vet nurses -yes their role can and should be increased, and nurses encouraged to specialise and take more courses / qualifications in their areas of interest, but they should not be used as a form of cheap labour.

2)proposed cap on the price of medicines - should be used with caution - it's where many vet practices make much of their profit. If they can't make profit from here, then they'll have to increase the cost of treatment, consults etc. Yes, they should be able to charge a *reasonable* amount to write a prescription so the drugs can be obtained (more cheaply) elsewhere by the customer ( not sure what a "reasonable " amount would be, as Petplan picks up the tab for Fred's meds, so I get them direct from the vet)

3)if the prices of various treatments has to be listed online, then what the price for treatment /procedure actually includes should also be listed eg follow -up consults after a procedure, so customers know they are comparing like with like (give the example of Matilda's teeth where her follow up and pain relief were included, whereas the vet a friend of DF PM goes to doesn't include either).

4)Vets should have freedom to prescribe and treat as they think is best for the animal, and work with the owner's situation and the animal's condition to provide "contextualised care" for the animal, and not unnecessarily constrained or pressurised by "company policy" to offer a set treatment / drugs that may not always be in the animal's best interest. Also, emphasise there needs to be a drive to encourage more people to take out insurance and understand the different types and what they cover. (I think we have a big cultural problem here because we have the NHS for people, which, despite its problems, means that medical treatment is free at the point of use. So we are shielded from the "real" cost of things, so it can understandably come as a big shock).

5)Since the CMA announced its investigation last year, there has been a big increase in abusive behaviour from customers towards staff, leading to a much higher level of anxiety amongst staff, many of whom are young women. (I often witness this when I'm taking an animal for an appointment, picking up meds etc) This needs to be stamped out and made completely unacceptable, as everyone should feel safe when they're at work.

6) anything else?


Garden extras:
Spray roses

Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 9:15 am
by Kittykatt
Making some progress. I've sprayed the roses in the front garden, but now need to wait until the sun has moved round before I tackle the back garden. Freddie has enjoyed his walk, and I've reread the 162 (!) page CMA interim report, which will help me make my final draft for my response.

Next, is some housework, and I'll maybe start on prep for lunch tomorrow , before the sun works its way round to the kitchen!

Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 9:17 am
by Kittykatt
To do:
Cuddles and treats with Matilda, 😀 Freddie 😀 and Jude 😀
QT😀
Update latest Waitrose order 😀
Cup of tea😀
Get up😀!
Shower/wash hair/moisturiser and sunblock/ clean and floss teeth😀
S/S bathroom😀
Physio exercises😀
Get dressed in casual clothes😀
Make bed😀
Scoop cat trays and give everyone fresh water😀
Cat breakfast and meds /supplements😀
Breakfast and meds /vitamins for me😀
Quick kitchen clean up😀
Load DW😀
Quick PUPA downstairs
Quick dust and Hoover downstairs
Wind clock
Quick PUPA upstairs😀
Quick dust bedrooms😀
15 minutes in tiny front garden 😀
15 minutes in back garden
Go for my walk
Walk Freddie😀
Lap time with Freddie, Jude😀 and Matilda
Head rubs with Freddie,😀 Jude 😀and Matilda😀
Play with Freddie, Jude and Matilda😀
Run DW when full
Unload DW
Lunch😀
Cats' supper
Our supper
Sort out lunch for tomorrow
Bake something?
Text DF E re coffee tomorrow
First load of towels in machine😀
Towels hung up to dry😀
2nd load of towels in machine to wash overnight
Clothes laid out for tomorrow

Extras:
Jude -cut nails, brush, flea control, Laxapet
Matilda -Laxapet
Write review for Seasalt 😀
Complete survey for BG
Email T
Email A
Find email address for CMA
List the points I wish to raise re their findings so far and interim recommendations - topics I want to comment on - Thank you for your words of encouragement, Helian and FFB! :D

1) The proposed increased use and expansion
of the role of vet nurses -yes their role can and should be increased, and nurses encouraged to specialise and take more courses / qualifications in their areas of interest, but they should not be used as a form of cheap labour.

2)proposed cap on the price of medicines - should be used with caution - it's where many vet practices make much of their profit. If they can't make profit from here, then they'll have to increase the cost of treatment, consults etc. Yes, they should be able to charge a *reasonable* amount to write a prescription so the drugs can be obtained (more cheaply) elsewhere by the customer ( not sure what a "reasonable " amount would be, as Petplan picks up the tab for Fred's meds, so I get them direct from the vet)

3)if the prices of various treatments has to be listed online, then what the price for treatment /procedure actually includes should also be listed eg follow -up consults after a procedure, so customers know they are comparing like with like (give the example of Matilda's teeth where her follow up and pain relief were included, whereas the vet a friend of DF PM goes to doesn't include either).

4)Vets should have freedom to prescribe and treat as they think is best for the animal, and work with the owner's situation and the animal's condition to provide "contextualised care" for the animal, and not unnecessarily constrained or pressurised by "company policy" to offer a set treatment / drugs that may not always be in the animal's best interest. Also, emphasise there needs to be a drive to encourage more people to take out insurance and understand the different types and what they cover. (I think we have a big cultural problem here because we have the NHS for people, which, despite its problems, means that medical treatment is free at the point of use. So we are shielded from the "real" cost of things, so it can understandably come as a big shock).

5)Since the CMA announced its investigation last year, there has been a big increase in abusive behaviour from customers towards staff, leading to a much higher level of anxiety amongst staff, many of whom are young women. (I often witness this when I'm taking an animal for an appointment, picking up meds etc) This needs to be stamped out and made completely unacceptable, as everyone should feel safe when they're at work.

6) anything else?


Garden extras:
Spray roses WIP
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Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 9:22 am
by helia
Congratulations to your DGS, Gma! I love civil engineers. My father was a civil engineering professor at the Univ. of Illinois. His department consistently ranked in the top 3 in the country while he was alive. I'm sure it was because of him. LOL!!! (Entirely joking.) His focus was reinforced concrete in large buildings and firesafe designs. His book on that topic became more popular after 9/11.
Good luck with the admin tasks and the letter you're writing, Kitty.
L Ann, my mom does not need her liquids thickened, thank goodness. She drinks well through a straw or a sippy cup. Maybe sometimes a regular cup.

Gma, do you have any tips to help the elderly with dementia stay hydrated?? I'm thinking this whole episode was caused or exacerbated by her extreme dehydration. The Dr. told me that she needs to drink 50-60 oz. a day. I really don't see that happening. I can't be at the facility to make sure she is drinking, and I think there's a huge possibility that she will become dehydrated again in the future. I'm thinking of buying some drinks and stocking the little fridge for her, as well as filling a measured water bottle so everyone can see how much she has drunk -- or do small water bottles. I hate to use that much plastic, but that could work too. I plan to bring over some drinks + a frappuccino this morning. Maybe a soft donut as a treat. :)

Dh and I ate leftovers at home last night, so we're going out tonight. :) I have nothing on my calendar. SO nice! But I do have lots to do. I'm going to pick up some drinks and straws, visit Mom, go for a jog - 5K, I hope. Although, I have not run AT ALL this week since the 5K last Saturday. Some laundry and perhaps some exam prep work -- all of that would make for a great Saturday. I'm thinking I can bring my work, sit in Mom's room and work and offer liquids for a couple hours today.

Next:
- back exercises
- s2s and self care
- Krogers

Later:
- donut shop?
- coffee shop - frappuccino
- visit Mom
- can I talk to someone about the plan with her wheelchair?? (The med company store is closed.)
- offer Mom drinks regularly
- some qt
- payroll: update gradelink week 3
- payroll: update exam record
- payroll: start on first exam
- lunch at some point (bring it with me??)
- 1 lol: w d f pa
- change to jog
- jog 5K (hopefully)
- progress on Mom's change of address cards?
- get flowers + a treat from WF for Mother's Day
- out to dinner with dh
- duo
- update health apps
- update goodreads?

TaDas!
- up, weighed self
- coffee + email deletions and weather website

WEEKLY ACTIVITIES
Sat 8 - 5K? / Dinner date with dh
Sun (Mother's Day) Church/ 3:30 - 5:30 host CG2/ Host Sunday dinner for 8?

Mon 1:30 - 3:30 payroll: teach AAS D9/ Dinner: Leftover paella, veggie - salad?
Tue 10-12ish KS2J get together/ Dinner at AA's place! :)
Wed1:30 - 3:30 payroll: teach AAS D10/ dinner: Leftover salmon, rice, roasted veggie
Thu 8-9 work out with trainer. 6-8 pm FID annual charity dinner? (I think not)/ Late - Dh leaves for sibling reunion in NL
Fri 9 - coffee with MM? / 1:30 - 3:30 payroll: teach AAS D11

May Brain Dumps
This Week - House
- clean fridge
- get 2 guest beds remade with clean sheets
- polish kitchen appliances
- possibly, polish stone counter tops
- repot my little orchid

This Week - Deskwork
- pay lawn guys
- pay therapist for BG
- Mom's change of address cards

General Brain Dump
- book bnbs for July vacation - wip
- progress decluttering clothes - wip
- new phone eventually
- buy queen bed frame + mattress + box springs for dd26's room - wip

MOM
- send change of address cards
- put up pics in her room - Dh is always busy or burnt out; can dd26 help with this?
- shelves for her room?
- keep on sprucing up her wardrobe - wip
- find a neurologist

Brain Dump - Mom and Trust
- get fire safe box for Mom's documents
- email church about the tools in Dad's workshop; Dad would have loved for the church workshop to have them

Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 9:30 am
by Lauralind
Morning all. I had started typing and stopped part way through and it's gone again. I'll try and recreate.

Kittykat I hope you can get those projects taken care of. Hard to find good help. I take it your dh is more techy than handyman. That's ok.

Gma that's a lot to deal with all at once especially when trying to heal your foot. Poor little dog.

Helian I am so glad your mom is doing so well now.

Now I'm trying to focus my day. I've completed some projects and need to figure out the next step. Spray the flowerbed area. Gonna pick and choose cause there are a few things I want to keep there. Then maybe inside stuff. I wrote it differently first attempt and now rethink. Honestly I should begin with the storage closet cause it is very messy and I have stuff stashed in the craft room that needs to fit the closet. Organizing those rooms is priority. Clean living room.

But first thing first I kinda want to pull out the info from the assessment before ds gets up. That was an adventure of a couple of days. It went very well. I had told ds. We talked extensively when I choose to rebook the appointment. He agreed to do it. If he had refused then I would have put a stop not wasting their time. He agreed. It was a week or so later I got the may date. I asked him again. Told him I rebooked. Then a week or so after I told him when it was. Even casual mention on the weekend. Then Wednesday after school I told him tomorrow... he plain said I don't want to. Asked him in the evening and he got mad and said the first he heard was yesterday. Umm no. I told you. Anyways I got my sister friends to pray. And left it till dh came home. He sat thinking about it and at such he on his own decided to do it and just get it over with. From then it went very well. H came after a toss up that if it was going to be difficult then just have to bring dh so he is more comfortable. He ended up doing very well with h.

Anyway yes he is on the spectrum. The lady was really sweet and I think he responded well. Did what she wanted. There is no surprise in my mind. I knew it. She talked so fast. Lots of questions and I really found out the memories of his childhood were very foggy for me. Then I chatted with my sister after with a big update on mom and dad's very thorough dr appointment. My brain was so fried that that is first on my list. Going through the papers she gave me
A half inch stack. And there will be a report out in a few weeks. Then I can figure out where to begin. Mostly I think there are support groups online and therapy we can join. Funding for the school if needed. And funding for post secondary ed. I don't know what we need. I also have not even used the term autism directly with him yet. I don't know if I will. Maybe one day?

Well that was long. I guess it helps me think too.

Priority list

Read testing info
Finish qt
Basic routines
Kitchen clean
Sheets clean
Closet organization
Outside flowerbed prep
Do I need to do something at dad's
Plan the rest of tomorrow's meal or am I making birthday cake


Today's tada list

Finish qt
Soak in tub instead of shower
Read info
S&s both baths and reboot laundry
Put away a bunch

Take sheets off bed for wash and start
Tidy laundry room and master bedroom some

Re: Seven-Layer Salad Saturday

Posted: Sat May 10, 2025 9:34 am
by helia
That's a lot of paperwork to go through, Lauralind. I'm glad the assessment went so well! I hope it will be helpful for ds.