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Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 2:07 am
by Kittykatt
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Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 2:11 am
by Kittykatt
Marmalade is a sweet, tangy fruit preserve made from the juice and peel of citrus fruits boiled with sugar and water. The well-known version is made from bitter orange, but other citrus fruits such as lemons and limes can also be used. The bitter orange is mostly used in marmalade because of its high pectin content, which gives a thick consistency to its marmalade. In addition, the balance of acid and pectin is needed for consistency. Fruits with low pectin have it added to make the marmalade.

Historically, the term marmalade was often used for non-citrus preserves. Mango, pineapple, apricot, and cocoa beans, have been made into marmalade in those cases. In the 21st century, the term refers mainly to jam made with citrus fruits. White sugar (sucrose) is typically used to sweeten marmalade,

Originally marmalade was made from quince, and meant quince cheese. Mary Kettilby's 1714 cookery book, A Collection of Above Three Hundred Receipts (pages 78–79) discusses how to make marmalade. Modern marmalade has existed since the 1700s when the Scottish added water to marmalade to make it less solid than before. The Scottish were the people who made marmalade a breakfast item, and soon after the rest of Britain followed.

The word marmalade in the English language comes from French which came from the Portuguese word marmelada, starting with the Greek word melimēlon that means 'sweet apple'.

The preserve has been mentioned in various books and marmalade sandwiches are the fictional character Paddington Bear's favourite food. The 2014 movie Paddington made slight increase in marmalade sales in the United Kingdom.

Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 2:22 am
by Kittykatt
Good morning, everyone, and happy Monday!

Dogged, thank you for your support. This lady has a reputation for being "difficult", so I.
Giving her until 10 am today to reply, and if she doesn't, then I'll send the list over without her, explaining that there may be an extra one, and that I'll let them know. It's.nit fair to keep the pub waiting -its a family owned business with a smallish kitchen , and as we're quite a big party they need to know our menu choices well in advance.

So, apart from finalising the menu choices for lunch, I'm hoping for a productive day today. A walk round the estate if it stops raining, some garden time if it's dry enough, and some housework. DH is going to the office, so if I don't get sidetracked there's potential to get a lot done today!

Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 2:23 am
by Kittykatt
To do:

Appointments:
Monday: DH to office
At home for me
Tuesday: DH WFH
At home.for me
Wednesday: DH to office
At home .for me
Laxapet for Jude and Matilda
9 pm Final touches to Waitrose order - order extra.milk
Thursday: DH WFH
10.30 am church
Any errands?
Collect Matilda's flea control?
12.noon parish lunch
Hoover car? ( Weather permitting!)
Bring blue crates up from garage
6-7 pm Waitrose delivery
Laxapet -Jude and Matilda if not done yesterday
Friday: DH WFH
10.30 am hair appointment - me. Can I get in early and look for new trainers? ( Write down the name of the model I'm interested in)
Saturday:
*Text DF E re coffee tomorrow*
Sunday:
Church 9.30 am - We're doing the xoffees
Take tickets for Christmas lunch with me
Coffee with DF E?
Laxapet Jude and Matilda
Set up new Waitrose delivery

Future dates to note:
11/11 Freddie Solensia appointment
13/11 Jude weight check
5/11 order inhalers
1/12 order meds
15/12 order HRT

Outstanding deliveries:

Extras:
M& S order
Book Fred's boosters
Email farmers Union with menu choices
Order flea control for Matilda
Print those new exercises I've found
Put pictures back WIP
Make notes for report for CMA - 15 minutes
Order new orthotics - wait until ankle settles
Can I do 15 minutes of decluttering in the bedroom each day?
Digital decluttering- Google Photos for 2024 and 2025
Pick up my footprints
House tasks: Replace the bit of mortar that's fallen out of the edge of the roof (I think its called the verge? Can this wait until next year when we get the house painted when a roof ladder will be in place?) I need for it to stop raining before I ask anyone to come and look!
Verge and ridge tiles on garage roof
Sort out cabinet that wobbles - does the back need some sort of bracing ?
Fix dripping kitchen tap (new washer ?)- DF E has given me the phone number of her plumber . I think DF CW also has a plumber she is happy with?
Take up and hem those thick winter curtains for the kitchen
Book eye test for me
Find picture hanging equipment for DH 😀
Sort prints and put in albums (this will probably be an activity to do on wet days!) WIP I am now working on 2024
Think about setting up Guardianship for F,J and M - looked on Cats' Protection, I need their microchip numbers, approximate DOB, colour and markings and useful information about them. Bookmark link with local recommended solicitors (also ask DF CW?)
Change health centres to the one nearest us? On hold ATM , but I'll leave it on my list so I don't forget.

To do:
Early morning:
Cuddles and treats on the bed with Matilda, Jude, and Freddie
Cup of tea
QT
Lightbox session
Make bed
Shower / wash hair/ moisturiser and sunblock/ clean and floss teeth
DH launched
Physio exercises and back exercises
Proprioceptors exercises X1 x2 x3
S/S bathroom
Get dressed
Breakfast and meds / supplements - me
DRINK WATER #1 #2 #3 #4 #5 #6 #7 #8
Check bank account
Go for my walk

Garden:
15 minutes in tiny front garden
15 minutes in back garden

Cats:
Cats’ breakfast and meds / supplements
Fresh water in cat bowls
Scoop cat trays
Check Jude’s bowl
Check Matilda's bowl
Walk Freddie
Lap time with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Play with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Head rubs with Jude Freddie and Matilda
Cats' supper

House:
Rubbish down to wheelie bins
Kitchen clean up
Unload DW
Reload DW
Run DW when full
Unload DW
PUPA downstairs
Quick dust sitting room
Quick hoover downstairs
PUPA upstairs
Quick dust bedrooms
Quick hoover upstairs
Lunch..
Supper
Lay out clothes for tomorrow
Journal three things I am thankful for today
Hand cream

Extra house tasks:

Monday:
Clean bathroom
Clean spare room
Clean bedroom

Tuesday:
Clean hall
Clean sitting room
Clean stairs
Empty hoover before starting work
Wheelie bins back when dustmen have been
Filing paperwork for 15 minutes

Wednesday:
Clean kitchen

Garden extras:
Water pots
Feed pots weekly
Plant foxgloves😀 and return tray and pots to Dneighbour R
Prune roses - 22 done, 4 to do (the totals might change as this time of year I assess what hasn't done well, and whether it gets another chance, or whether it's time to say goodbye!)
Top up bark in front garden as it settles 😀
Patio furniture down to garage for winter 😀

Financial:
More work on budget

Things that need to happen at home before DH retires!
Reorganise office WIP DH's cupboard still needs organising properly ( may e I can do it when he goes to Leeds next?)

Declutter bedroom 15 minutes at a time!

Parish Christmas Lunch:
Date and venue booked😀
Caterers booked😀
Email parish administrator re printing tickets and poster😀
Email parish administrator again😀
Put posters up at church 😀
Ask DF HT to advertise parish Christmas lunch in weekly newsletter ? Need to write something and send it to her Tues / Weds

Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 4:14 am
by FrenchFlybebe
◕‿◕ * * * Good Morning! * * * ◕‿◕

Kittykatt thanks for the start, and now a mental image of the Paddington Bear making a mess with oranges to make marmalade. I hope the difficult lady won't be an obstruction to a nice parish meal.

At payroll, happy to leave the house with some daylight, thanks to the winter time change.
Kids are at daycare today and tomorrow.

TADAs
Morning rush
Commute
A few payroll tasks

Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 6:57 am
by Kittykatt
Good morning, FFB! That's nice you could walk the boys to daycare in the light today. I think maybe the real catalyst for the increase in marmalade consumption was the "skit" Paddington did with our late Queen, as a surprise for her Platinum Jubilee.

https://youtu.be/y2Pq0h0h-UQ?si=br2c2X3OV8Gxn6Q-

I'm used to this particular lady, she has a reputation for being "difficult", but she's not had an easy life, so I do try to be understanding. Ive heard from her this morning, and she doesn't want either of the alternatives I suggested for her, that I know she would be able to eat, so she's going to visit the pub herself this afternoon and get an exact list of ingredients for the soup. (She does not have any allergies or food intolerances, she's just very fussy). I'm going to admit my heart sank when she said she wanted to come, but I'm going to have to try and make her feel welcome .

I e done lots of "bits" of things this morning, but done actually seem to have finished anything. :roll: I'm going to take Fred out next (it's windy today, but dry! :D ) and then go fory walk.

Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 7:08 am
by Kittykatt
To do:

Appointments:
Monday: DH to office😀
At home for me
Laxaoet Jude (she's moulting)😀
Tuesday: DH WFH
At home.for me
Wednesday: DH to office
At home for me
Laxapet for Jude and Matilda
9 pm Final touches to Waitrose order - order extra milk
Thursday: DH WFH
10.30 am church
Any errands?
Collect Matilda's flea control?
12.noon parish lunch
Hoover car? ( Weather permitting!)
Bring blue crates up from garage
6-7 pm Waitrose delivery
Laxapet -Jude and Matilda if not done yesterday
Friday: DH WFH
10.30 am hair appointment - me. Can I get in early and look for new trainers? ( Write down the name of the model I'm interested in)
Saturday:
*Text DF E re coffee tomorrow*
Sunday:
Church 9.30 am - We're doing the coffees
Take tickets for Christmas lunch with me
Coffee with DF E? Not this week
Laxapet Jude and Matilda
Set up new Waitrose delivery

Future dates to note:
11/11 Freddie Solensia appointment
13/11 Jude weight check
5/11 order inhalers
1/12 order meds
15/12 order HRT

Outstanding deliveries:

Extras:
M& S order😀
Book Fred's boosters when calendar is updated
Order dried food for Jude, Plaque off for Matilda
Check Feliway supplies, Zylkene and Fred's wet food
Email farmers Union with menu choices
Order flea control for Matilda
Print those new exercises I've found ( took ages as I had to wrestle the printer into submission first!) 😀
Put pictures back WIP
Make notes for report for CMA - 15 minutes
Order new orthotics - wait until ankle settles
Can I do 15 minutes of decluttering in the bedroom each day?
Digital decluttering- Google Photos for 2024 and 2025
Pick up my footprints
House tasks: Replace the bit of mortar that's fallen out of the edge of the roof (I think its called the verge? Can this wait until next year when we get the house painted when a roof ladder will be in place?) I need for it to stop raining before I ask anyone to come and look!
Verge and ridge tiles on garage roof
Sort out cabinet that wobbles - does the back need some sort of bracing ?
Fix dripping kitchen tap (new washer ?)- DF E has given me the phone number of her plumber . I think DF CW also has a plumber she is happy with?
Take up and hem those thick winter curtains for the kitchen
Book eye test for me
Find picture hanging equipment for DH 😀
Sort prints and put in albums (this will probably be an activity to do on wet days!) WIP I am now working on 2024
Think about setting up Guardianship for F,J and M - looked on Cats' Protection, I need their microchip numbers, approximate DOB, colour and markings and useful information about them. Bookmark link with local recommended solicitors (also ask DF CW?)
Change health centres to the one nearest us? On hold ATM , but I'll leave it on my list so I don't forget.

To do:
Early morning:
Cuddles and treats on the bed with Matilda,😀 Jude,😀 and Freddie😀
Cup of tea😀
QT😀
Lightbox session😀
Make bed😀
Shower / wash hair/ moisturiser and sunblock/ clean and floss teeth😀
DH launched 😀
Physio exercises and back exercises 😀
Proprioceptors exercises X1 x2 x3
S/S bathroom😀
Get dressed😀
Breakfast and meds / supplements - me
DRINK WATER #1😀 #2 #3 #4 #5 #6 #7 #8
Check bank account
Go for my walk

Garden:
15 minutes in tiny front garden
15 minutes in back garden

Cats:
Cats’ breakfast and meds / supplements 😀
Fresh water in cat bowls
Scoop cat trays😀
Check Jude’s bowl
Check Matilda's bowl
Walk Freddie
Lap time with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Play with Jude, Freddie and Matilda
Head rubs with Jude Freddie and Matilda
Cats' supper

House:
Rubbish down to wheelie bins
Kitchen clean up
Unload DW
Reload DW
Run DW when full
Unload DW
PUPA downstairs
Quick dust sitting room
Quick hoover downstairs
PUPA upstairs
Quick dust bedrooms
Quick hoover upstairs
Lunch..
Supper
Lay out clothes for tomorrow
Journal three things I am thankful for today
Hand cream

Extra house tasks:

Monday:
Clean bathroom
Clean spare room
Clean bedroom
Declutter and organise a little in my wardrobe😀

Tuesday:
Clean hall
Clean sitting room
Clean stairs
Empty hoover before starting work
Wheelie bins back when dustmen have been
Filing paperwork for 15 minutes

Wednesday:
Clean kitchen

Garden extras:
Water pots
Feed pots weekly
Plant foxgloves😀 and return tray and pots to Dneighbour R
Prune roses - 22 done, 4 to do (the totals might change as this time of year I assess what hasn't done well, and whether it gets another chance, or whether it's time to say goodbye!)
Top up bark in front garden as it settles 😀
Patio furniture down to garage for winter 😀

Financial:
More work on budget

Things that need to happen at home before DH retires!
Reorganise office WIP DH's cupboard still needs organising properly ( may e I can do it when he goes to Leeds next?)

Declutter bedroom 15 minutes at a time!

Parish Christmas Lunch:
Date and venue booked😀
Caterers booked😀
Email parish administrator re printing tickets and poster😀
Email parish administrator again😀
Put posters up at church 😀
Ask DF HT to advertise parish Christmas lunch in weekly newsletter ? Need to write something and send it to her Tues / Weds
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Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 8:43 am
by Kittykatt
And I have success for our parish lunch. D has finally been persuaded that an organic vegan soup and some fresh organic bread cannot possibly have anything "nasty" in it. (Fortunately, she does not have to eat gluten free!) I've quickly finalised my list and emailed it to the proprietor, so I can finally tick that off my list.😀

Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 10:07 am
by helia
Kitty, WTG organizing the parish lunch and working with that difficult person! Did you get in a walk?
Hope payroll is going well, FFB. Light in the morning is a more motivating way to start the day.

Popping in for a quick minute. I have some things I need to finish for class today. Then, I need to drive dh to the airport at 9 a.m. Still dark here at 7 a.m.

Goodness, this NICU experience is stressful. The NICU staff is wonderful and I think little I is getting fabulous care - it's just the stress of supporting F, who is finding this really hard. And, of course, it's also hard for us to see tiny I with so many tubes and wires attached to her. I have my own worries too. Little I got worse yesterday and was put on a CPAP to help her breathing. Her breathing rate has decreased while on it, which is good. Ds texted at 11:30 last night and said that the Dr. said no change - which is good. She's stopped getting worse -- we hope. We're hoping this morning will be the first morning without bad news, which will be a sort of progress. Stopping going backwards is progress!

I'm not eating well at all -- and not exercising beyond walking around the hospital. It has been almost nonstop rain; there were a couple hours without rain yesterday, but they were at a time when I couldn't go for a walk.

Main Goals Today:
- payroll: make HW4 (practice for test), grade HW3, set up quizlet - 5A Vocab
- 9 drive dh to the airport
- go to the hospital
- will F bedischarged today?
- help around the house as much as I can; help make dinner for 4?

Next:
- payroll: set up quizlet for vocab
- payroll: make HW4
- payroll: grade HW3

Later:
- back exercises
- s2s and self care
- otd @ 9 a.m.; drive dh to the airport
- go to the hospital to visit
- get in a short jog/ walk today - might be possible
- help with dinner? I think F has a casserole for the first night home
- after dinner clean up
- feed cats wet food lunch and dinner
- duolingo
- actually update health apps

TaDas!
- up; coffee
- email deletions + weather website - looks like maybe no rain today?
- sent trustee contact info to dbro for umpteenth time. :roll: Told him to save it somewhere. He probably can't/ won't :roll:

WEEKLY ACTIVITIES
Mon 9 - take dh to the airport/ 3 - (Eastern time) payroll: teacher meeting?
Tue
Wed Fly home
Thu 2-3 trainer work out/ 6 - dh work awards dinner?
Fri 1:30 - 3:30 payroll: teach AIAS D8/ dinner date with dh?
Sat 9 - 5K? / 5-9-ish CG1 - will we host?
Sun church/ 3:30 - 6-ish CG2 @ L+B/ 6 - ? host Sunday dinner

October Brain Dumps
This Week - House
- get 2 guest beds remade with clean sheets
- repot my little orchid - dh will do

This Week - Deskwork
- make appointment with optometrist
- schedule window washers - wip - got an estimate and will call to schedule once we're back
- Memorial thank yous
- call gravestone store to engrave Mom's gravestone
- check CC
- check health statement

This Week - Errands

General Brain Dump
- progress decluttering clothes - wip
- new phone eventually
- buy queen bed frame + mattress + box springs for dd27's room - wip

Mom
- start washing her clothes and blankets :arrow: donation site

Re: Marmalade Monday

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 10:33 am
by FrenchFlybebe
Kittykatt, so the lady is finally ok ! Good for her. I hope the weather agrees with your afternoon plans.

Helia, poor baby I. It must be difficult for F of course. Hoping for everything to be fine soon, so that the new family can soon be home.

DS7 is sick, probably nothing serious. MrNG left his internship at noon, is now home. I will probably stay home tomorrow... depending on what doc says, doc appt at 6.30pm.
Gray day, not a lot to do.

TADAs
Payroll stuff
Phone calls and texts with MrNG re DS7
Payroll tasks, tea, payroll tasks