Postby Harmony » Mon Dec 27, 2010 11:22 pm
Much to think about.
Smaller tree was fine. Pretty. Easier.
I made too many cookies. I made an assortment to take to DH's father, some for his brother and son. DH didn't make any effort to go see them. Going to not do that again. There were too many left here for us. Not doing them all in one day was a good idea.
DH can get cards for his family as he wants next year. This year I got my feelings hurt because I spent a bunch of time picking out ones, and a family member told me we put the wrong last name on one (she took her maiden name again, and we didn't know). Next year I'm not going to get involved.
Found out DD2, while planning her trip away on Christmas Day was afraid to tell me about it. Eye-opening to me. I thought it was a nutty idea, a whole lot of work and expense for them, but it was their Christmas and they had the right to decide that for them. All I wanted was some time with them. Must make sure she understands this.
This year I appreciated the cards I received more than usual. Going to put more thought into the ones I send out.
Next year, I will try to get house together before Thanksgiving, but not all in one week like this year. Even if I do not host, the house will be ready for Christmas, it will not be wasted effort.
Sure I will think of other stuff. Must write this down to remember.