I am trying very hard to not listen to the keeping voices of my dear family. (dh in particular). I have a drip small coffee pot I don't use at all that I want to donate as I am keeping the regular perk coffee pot (faber ware) - he doesn't mean anything by it but I hear "why are you getting rid of that" and I fold. My strength disappears and my self doubt takes place. He said he was just asking but that just asking makes me depressed. doesn't that sound silly - I am going to run this over to donation so the self doubt and depression leaves me. I want to get rid of it - there is no doubt in that but when I hear someone say... why? it drags me down and I know it shouldn't.
How do you deal with those voices that question you getting rid of things?
went to donation place and ended up NOT being able to donate coffee maker... embarrassing to say the least,
top fell off and I must have put the coffee maker away with wet coffee grounds, not sure how I did that, but there was mold and yuck dried in there... happy I found out before I gave it to them. tossed coffee pot but donated other things.
trying to stay positive as I continue in 3 season room