I checked in REALLY late Thursday night -- sorry if this re-run is unnecessary -- but some thoughts I wanted to make sure y'all saw:
Ooohhh.... (((
helia)))... re: dd18 -- yes... senior-itis. Remember my theory: We get to be pregnant 9 months so we won't fear childbirth; we get to have a senior year so we won't fear the empty (or in your case, shrinking) nest. Your children always sound so wonderful -- and I am sure everyone who knows dd18 feels that way still -- except possibly you, at the moment. Perfectly normal. This too will pass. (((More hugs)))
I know when y'all look at my duncle/dmom thread you'll think I'm just making excuses, too... * sigh * But I really do feel my hands are tied somewhat. She is perfectly capable of getting herself to her family doctor and the ob-gyn on her own; I offered to go to the ob-gyn with her and she said no, no need... and it is VERY difficult to talk to family doctor w/out an appt. When one HAS an appt, one is at his office for HOURS. The wait time is unreal. If he were not such a wonderful, kind, loving person, none of us would put up with it. But... I hate to go behind dmom's back, too.
Anyway -- she did sound good this morning... (or rather, around 1:00 pm) and dbro talked to her later in the afternoon and said she sounded normal, too.
Maybe we're just in the normal up-and-down of grief, and I shouldn't let duncle upset me so.
(She didn't sound so good yesterday, though, after straining her back.) Shaking my head...
(((
Lilac's dd2)))
OH -- and you girls have led me astray!!!
I bought my first bag of Gimbell's Cherry candies today! Oh my... yes... they are sooo good.
I am increasing my vitamin C intake and, sadly, my weight.
Took dgs in to look at the baby chicks at T ractor S upply. (That was the excuse, anyway.

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I had no idea Purim required costumes. (((
Twins)))for your dmom situation, too.
And
Elizabeth -- bed at 3:00 am, up at 3:00 pm... sounds perfectly reasonable to me.

Elvis Standard Time. If only we had Elvis' money and staff to go with it. (My ddad would be sooo quick to assure me that this sort of daily routine contributed to Elvis' downfall, and will soon lead to ours, btw.) (Along with giving us wrinkles.)